what makes sex pleasurable?

Question

is it when the penis continually slides in and out quickly, or is it the deep penetration, or what?

Answer 1

First of all it's knowing that you are BOTH very aroused and each of you are being pleasured. I don't feel horney and sexy if I know that my "partner" isn't aroused and into intimacy with me. That's probably why the idea of paying a call girl for sex never appealed to me, it was'the money, or even the threat of STD, it was always that there was no "connection" there no - genuine sharing of a mutually pleasureable experience.

My heightening of pleasure is directly related to how excited, and to what degree of orgazmic delight I can help my partner achieve. The pleasure of sex is not derived just from the penis entering the vagina, - deep, slow, fast, or from any number of positions. There's touching, caressing, kissing, licking, sucking, and manipulating other parts of the body and other orifices that can and do produce incredible exotic delights and pleasurable sensations that can make you shudder uncontrollably with delight, and moan with sweet release.

Sometimes the best way to heighten the moment is to just stop in place for a few moments - and let the anticipation and need build until the desire in you both is almost painful; this delaying of final release , four or five times in a row before ejaculation -, bringing both to the very brink, and then falling back, and then bring both the the brink of wild abandon - and then getting lost in the oblivion of mutual orgasum together, - now that's pleasureable.

Just as sweet is holding one another after, nuzzling, cooing, sharring small secrets, praising your lover, and then quietly drifting of together for a lover's nap on a sun dappled afternoon, in the tangle of sheets. .

Answer 2

for me it's the feeling when I'm pushing it in, not pulling it out. I've noticed that women like it when I push it hard against the front of her vagina. Right behind where the pubes are. (G-spot). I had a girlfriend who liked being on top, just so she could do that. It was easy to know that she was pleasing herself and not me. But she didn't know that it worked me up when she pleased herself like that so before you knew it we were both finished and were panting like dogs.
Man I miss her sometimes, cuz haven't been with a girl quite like that since.

Answer 3

For me, it's both, but mostly the movement. I like the sensation of it sliding in deep, but if my husband lays still (like while kissing me), the sensation that there's anything "in there" dies down until he starts moving again. I don't think I could get off with him inside me but not moving at all.

For him, he likes both, too.

Answer 4

Why Is Sex So Enjoyable

Answer 5

deep penetration.

Answer 6

For men, it is all about friction. Either pressure or speed(thrusting). Actually, we are just happy women allow us to do it with them once in awhile...

Answer 7

i don t knoww