Well, This is werid?

Question

Well this is werid , im 23 i got this friend from collage i party with on the weekends and i usally crash at house after we party all night etc,

So here i was i went to a club with him and got drunk and then i crashed on his couch, I had a werid dream and i woke up having an orgasm and then i saw his 14 year old sister giving me oral sex, i pushed her off and left.

I dont know what to do, hes been my friend for like a year, should i tell him what she did when i was sleeping.

what should i do?

Answer 1

You need to tell your friend everything. Think of it this way, either you tell the truth now, or he and his parents find out from the 14 year old. Statutory rape is a difficult thing to defend from the adult's point of view.

Answer 2

WooHoo! Might be too much information for him and sounds like you need to steer sister to Y!A LGBT for some advisories on discretion. You might want to consult our LGBT experts yourself, as having an orgasm in reality rather than dream state raises the possibility that your "straight arrow" has developed a curve even though you pushed her off. Sister needs some help from the lesbian sisterhood as she has evidently discovered her preference and this may not be her first time. Bringing in the boyfriend or parents is only going to raise Hell to their eye level and may not be a wise move. Getting to you, how did you feel aside from the orgasm which is a natural response to sexual stimulation, especially since the body does not always distinguish between male and female in sleep mode? Were you reulse and doubting your own sexual preference or were you repulse? One or two sessions with a counselor could help you and also gain you professional guidance on how to handle the situation with the least harm to all involved.

Answer 3

As awkward as it will be - yes, you should tell him. If you don't tell him, then he may find out anyway and then he'll wonder why you didn't tell him. Besides - his sister is a minor, and if you don't tell the truth upfront and it comes out later, the story might be twisted or misinterpreted later and you might end up in BIG trouble because it'll look like you were fooling around with a minor.

Answer 4

Yeah, pretty weird. I don't know bud, if you tell him, you may somehow get blamed for this, by his parents or...?
In your shoes, knowing what I know now, I think that I would tell the kid that if she ever does this to you or anyone again, you'll go straight to the parents. BUT.... she could retaliate and say that you had sex with her.
Maybe best to not go to that house anymore unless you know the kid isn't there. Crazy, 14!

Answer 5

Leave this one alone for sure. Nobody should know about
this. Don't stay over there again but invite your friend over
to your house instead so he doesn't think it's about him.
Avoid the sister like the plague.

Answer 6

You should definitely tell your friend what happened. It was pretty inappropriate. A 14 year-old girl does not need to go around doing that.

Answer 7

It'll be rather embarrassing if you tell him. But just think it this way, if you did tell him, what result would you get, and if you don't? There's really no harm in this are there? Ask her sister if you're comfortable with it and ask her whether it's fine with her to tell her brother...

Answer 8

Don't tell anyone!!!!!!!!! EVER. It wasn't your fault, yu did the right thing by finishing (sort of) and leaving.

Answer 9

I think you should tell her parents and let them deal with it....

Answer 10

Nice fantasy....now grow up!

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