Ever have those weak moments where your confidence and self esteem have taken a beating? What can I tell myself to appear this way to others until I get my strenght back?
2007-05-27 02:29:48 · 5 answers · asked by Single Gal 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Any lack of confidence come from past loses or failures which get re-stimulated by current environment.
There is a book called Self Analysis that is easy to use.
With it you improve your ability to look at the past and be in the present, instead of being in the past and looking at the present.
2007-05-27 02:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by michaeljripley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling yourself this you will actually gain the confidence and strenght.
Look in the mirror; Say I like myself... I am pretty... etc...
You will begin to smile. What ever area you need confidence in say that to yourself in the mirror with confidence, say it like you mean it, over and over a few times, it want take many.
2007-05-27 13:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Everything in this earth belongs to me. Every one owes me something. I am the greatest living creature this pathetic world has ever seen.' Bombastic comments always boost your confidence.
2007-05-27 11:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Blindman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell myself, "If they think they can do better, then they can get up here."
2007-05-27 09:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i usually just do away with any other thoughts and listen to my good ol' buddy jollibee saying: "kaya mo, kid..!" (if you don't understand, it means "you could do it, kid..!" (^^,)
that's what i also tell my friends... hope it would help you too..!
good luck..!
2007-05-27 09:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by sayu13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋