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every guy that a go out with always uses me to get what they want why is that guys?

2007-05-27 01:59:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

34 answers

maybe its cause your not very good. hehe

2007-05-27 02:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 5

You won't like this, but you're picking the wrong guys. Some guys are just pigs and will use any girl that will let them. I'm guessing that you have some confidence issues and sometimes feel like you have to put out to be noticed. That's exactly what these kinds of jerks are looking for. You're not a bad person, they are. You just need to stand up for yourself, and make sure it's real before you consumate the relationship. And if you feel pressure to have sex to keep a boyfriend, then just let him go. If he's willing to dump you over that, then that's all he wants.

2007-05-27 02:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0 0

In my experience guys do not always move on to someone else after I've had sex with them.
Maybe your letting them get it far too quickly? Then they might think that was all you wanted in the first place? Or if you are too easy they may not see you as girlfriend material.
The build up to sleeping with someone the first time is so much fun; teasing a little, getting to know them etc....
You should try to enjoy that first rather than jumping in all gun blazing :)

2007-05-27 02:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Avril 3 · 1 0

they don't always, I have had relationships that lasted for years that just started as sex. I would encourage you to set your standards(code of conduct) higher. I have had guys council me that you should never give a guy sex right away or until they have made a committment. Men don't want a woman that is easy, its a matter of morals, probably deepseated.. also we tend to value more what costs us more, if your love comes easy,its easily disposed of.
You call the shots, don't let the guys take control. Don't give your heart or your body away. Except to your husband. Archaic but tried and true, live with honor and allow no man to dishonor you

2007-05-27 02:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I wouldn't know, I don't have sex with a woman I couldn't consider a more serious relationship with. Some guys just need to grow up a bit. Or perhaps you are just a trophy, some triumph for them. Guys tend to treat really beautiful women that way sometimes.

2007-05-27 05:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by George B 2 · 0 0

I think the answer lies in your question.

Sex or love? Which do you prefer? What do you want more?

Anyone can have sex, but making love comes when you are in a relationship, where both parties respect each other & are comfortable with each other.

You need to experience, feel, love, before you sleep with someone. It could take weeks, months even, but when you next sleep with someone make sure they love you for who you are, not what you look like.

Not only will you not feel used, but it will give your self esteem a massive boost. You will feel like a million dollars!

2007-05-27 04:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0 0

maybe thats all they wanted in the first place.
get to know the guy first if you really click then find out if he wants a relationship or just a good night. I never had any one leave me because i have made sure they are decent guys and want the same thing before anything happens.

2007-05-27 02:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by mudfish 6 · 0 0

Don't give in get to know the guy if he is still about after 3/6 months then
BUT NOT BEFORE

2007-05-27 02:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe you shouldn't give them what they want then. If you wait a long time before having sex with them....the horn dogs will get bored and tired of waiting and just move on. The guys that really like you and enjoy your company will stick around.

2007-05-27 02:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 3 0

Hun this may sound a bit harsh but dont let them use you for that..... that are worth more, guys will try and get you into bed in a second dont give in to them let them demoralise themselves and not you.... if a guy likes you enough he will wait..... if alcohol has been consumed then dont do it let a guy appreciate you for who you are first we are the better sex!!!

2007-05-27 02:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by jodie 2 · 0 0

1. self respect
2. Improve your self esteem
3. when he has had u, he looses interest in u as a person
4. take your time, build a relationship, If you give it up to easily , he thinks she's an easy lay,anyone could do her
5. Take a break from men, next time make him WAIT and if he wont then u know ,he is only interested in making the conquest.

2007-05-29 09:22:35 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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