please answer me what should i can do
2007-05-27 01:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get married to him in court. Court marriage as you call it is solemnized under the Special Marriage Act, 1954 all such marriages can take place between any two Indian citizens as well one Indian citizen with a foreigner irrespective of their region, religion, caste or creed, and you can say this is the secular form of marriage available in our country. Such a marriage is solemnized before the marriage officer/registrar usually D.C. deputy commissioner of the area (Sub registrar/SDM is the marriage officer/registrar only in case the already solemnized marriage under any other Act has to be registered) where both or any of the parties to such a marriage reside permanently or for at least one month. Cost of such a marriage is merely Rs90/- or as the rate prevalent in your area. Now how you proceed? Both the parties to the marriage file a joint application before the marriage officer along with individual affidavit attested by notary public specifying the age(boy 21yrs &girl 18yrs), place of residence, marital status(unmarried or divorcee as the case maybe), mental status(not idiot or not with unfit mind), not related to each other. Along with this you have to give proof of age( School certificate, Passport,) , proof of residence(Passport, ration card, voters id card, PAN card, rent agreement) , & the application of such a marriage should be witnessed by 3 independent adult persons, affix one photograph of each of the parties & all the 3 witnesses. You have made such an application/notice to the marriage officer in person along with all the 3 witnesses. On receiving such an application the marriage officer issues a month notice regarding the intended marriage & get such a notice affixed on the notice board out side his office, a copy of such notice is sent to the marriage officer under whose jurisdiction the other party lives, also a copy is to the individual parties address. After expiry of the period of notice a date is fixed on which all the persons parties to the marriage & 3 witnesses appear again before the marriage officer who declare them married & issue a certificate to this regard. Incase of any objections raised the marriage officer will settle these objections. Now what can be objections that can be raised? These can ONLY BE REGARDING THE CONDITIONS NECESSARY FOR SUCH MARIAGE & NOTHING ELSE. What are the conditions? As I stated above i.e. Age, martial status, mental status, prohibited relationship (related to each other by blood). This is the brief procedure I have told you here, incase you want any clarification you can ask.
2007-05-28 21:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you should marry him and not think of the differences between your respective communities. If your parents are against such a marriage, you should try to reason with them. If they are adamant, you might consider marrying him against their wishes, provided he is open to the idea. But if you seek security and safety in marriage and wish to give love a go by, then marry someone from your community or one who is chosen by your parents. In that case your love isn't true.
2007-05-27 03:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jo ladki apne maa baap ki na ho saki woh kissi aur ki kya hogi...
Don't marry him without your parents blessing. I agree that there should be no caste system. I can understand your love for him and his love for you. But duniya pyar se nahi chalti. Listen to your parents. One mistake can ruin your life. Your parents will help you make a right decision.
May god be with you and fulfill your dream with your parents blessing.
2007-05-27 19:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Indy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caste is no problem provided sex @love is based on real affection and devotion only. If you thing love is sex forget such love as a boy will leave the girl after some time.
2007-05-27 03:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love each other, then it does not matter. Dont worry what the parents or others say, nothing can stand in the way of true love.
2007-05-27 02:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by pran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love that person den u shud make d move
and if u think u cnt face ur familyz matter den plz no need to make dis move
if u have full confidence dat u can be wid her in any situation den u can continue ur relation
bt if u think u r weak in dis point den dnt go a head.......................
2007-05-27 05:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by jashan preet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on we r livin in the 21st century. there r no caste barriers nowadays. so go ahead and make the move
2007-05-27 01:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by smart_dude_ishu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jab ba pyar kiya, tho darna kya?
well no more caste system dude...
go marry him n lead a happy life...
2007-05-27 06:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Billy-Bila 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get married soon,u will have good family.
2007-05-27 01:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so wat? this is a secular country as well as democratic nation.
U have right to marry him or not..........no body can intervene in ure personal case.Go ahead and marry.Also think twice before marriage............its ure life, u can do watever u want.your life.........plz decide., it require guts to go ahead.Can u?
2007-05-27 03:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Hitler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋