I am a businessman i got many thing because i was very poor and i have nothing but I thought that i will get stability in my life which i don't i want to relieve and want to get some relax for some days i can not .
If I leave every thing and go out side for two to three days and i return i feel more problem
when I was in childhood my dream was I will be an example and i have got it but for this success i have lost my relax
I have search many god father (Guru) but my bed luck
I think it will stop with my death beacuse my nature is hard working and hard working return more mud place
2007-05-27 00:50:08 · 23 answers · asked by saga 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Living or dying is an individual decision. It is the ultimate escape mechanism.
First thing to do is to calm down. Sit down somewhere alone and spend five minutes breathing slowly and deeply. analyze,' Who is tired and wants to die.?'
All that dies is the body and ego. Is that all there is to one.
There are many self styled gurus. A real guru can be a major help. Yet, the solution lies within oneself. Others can only show the way. The travelling has to done by oneself.
As the saying goes,'When God shuts the door, He leaves a window open'.
2007-05-27 21:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by A.V.R. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have none of your Guru's told you that happiness cannot be found in material wealth and belongings? Your nature may be to work hard but you do not only have to use this nature to make money. Work hard at what you enjoy doing. If you don't know what you enjoy, then you need to start working hard to figure it out. Since you have been able to accumulate wealth, you have many more options. Change your focus.
2007-05-27 08:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by jenntaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worrying that much. We need not go to the one which is coming very fast towards us-'the death'. Instead of thinking about that inevitble, do some thing else different from that. And for your information god father and guru are not the same.Whenever you are in such a mood remember me.
2007-05-28 01:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by srinidhi e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me.
There are many people out there for whom life's a drudgery.Yet they choose to live for taking on life as it comes is a bigger challenge & a brave decision.You've faced life bravely till now by the sound of it & I believe u should go on doing that.
God is always with u.My Dad says, one can never be in the dark gloom forever for this whole universe is dynamic and changing so if we go by that u will reach light one day for sure.
If u're praying for something constantly & still not getting it, don't think God isn't listening to u.... It is just that He has got better plans for u.
***** GOD IS WITHIN U *****
2007-05-27 08:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tulip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Annoymous Sweet Friend,
Read hard side fact of yoursweetself life and also right now the state of mind you are in,well here i would like to say if you are married then on whom shoulder will feel relax your wife and kids if you take such a extream step,firstly for wife and kid father is relation b'coz of whom they are safe from world's every problem and secondly for them it will be very hard to face the hard reality of world , now coming on to yourgoodself problem as you have mentioned you are hard working personality by nature but in return you got negative result as luck does not favour you despite your hard work " We as Human being have right on action and will get fruit as per our action " mean if we will do anything with sencerity hundred percent will be successfull perhaps in your case either you have left some loop hole in your hard work or you choose involve yourself mentally and physically to hard work where you are not comfortable and resulting not getting desire result,so friend do believe in GOD and assess your self neuterally if you are correct/right what ever you are doing physically/mentally/finacially as we are in the world of Competiotion where only that person will survive who check his cost , do switch on to some viable bussiness after survey which has gap of Demand and Supply,don't continue with same which hit you very hard mentally.
2007-05-27 08:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by nartan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you ( like million others) are still a child in your mind. You cling to the safety of your mother and cling to the pleasures of your toys. Except that , as a grown Up your mother of safety seems to be "money" and your toys seem to be the things that you buy with the money.
Both these are not real happiness giving things. You come out of the fear that you have . That is what is holding you back. May be , when you were young ang very poor, you went withoout food and that fear of hunger haunts you. Your thinking that the money is going to give you happiness is shaken. Come out of the fear and you will be happy. It is like coming out of the prison.
2007-05-27 08:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn that life is not all about working hard to have all the things that you didn't have when you were poor. Whats the point of working hard and having everything you want and not able to enjoy the rewards of all your hardwork? Get a life and enjoy a little and learn to have fun with it.
2007-05-27 08:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up, try hard for what u want..... failure is every step for success..... focus on ur destination don't give a dam for the road to ur destination..... maybe it will be tuff but think about how wonderful wil be when u reach ur destination. give a boost to ur self and go a head.... juz pray to god ( how worse u can make my life ? but i will over come it ) belive in ur self don't belive guru's nothing they can do be practical. u can refer to the the history of successful people the must been go thru on what are happening in ur life today...... do ur best and be the best ! all the best !
2007-05-27 14:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by muru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have lost faith in your self and others.
people are like dogs, i like dogs they are very social and though some are not very friendly most are just running around looking for a pat and some one to play with.
stop cutting your self off you need to run with a pack and play sniffy noses.
you sound to have studyed, so you know your body and mind are well connected.
pick yourself up get exercise become fitter than you have ever been you are a man, a warrior by nature you come from a long line of warriors ,of survivors, thats why you were born.
your body and mind are capable of so much make them strong together .
the answers you seek are not with eny one else, they are with the warrior with in you.
2007-05-27 08:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you die dear friend you will just start over from square one. Is this what you want?
Following a childhood dream can be distressing. Time to come up with a new dream.
What will it be this time. Peace?
love and blessings Don
2007-05-27 09:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋