ANd boobs and such...he has always said he didn't like army girls and that they weren't good looking in his opinion...he is a first sargeant in the army. I am afraid, because he is going away to another post for a week for some board. Should I blow this off as him just looking online or do you think I have reason to fear he may be trying to hook up?
PS I know women in the army can be nice looking...I am just saying what he said...and that is that he doesn't find them attractive....which I am starting to believe is a lie.
2007-05-27 00:26:04 · 20 answers · asked by swtlilblonde31 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, thats not cool, he's disrespecting you to some degree. And there are lots of gals on youtube showing off there bodies.
2007-05-28 05:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty to be concerned with. You have a man who is lusting and desiring other women and what's worst, he isn't doing too good of a job hiding it from you. And, you're right, he is lying. It's like a man who has a porn book in his hand and says "nah, I don't like porn!" He's already seeking and searching for something else that he likes and wants. Don't underestimate the behavior that you're already seeing. If it hasn't happened already, it's just a matter of time. I'm sorry to be so blunt here with you, because I know that you are looking for words of encouragement. But, this is a very serious problem. You can read quite of few articles on the web about the correlation between porn and infidelity. I'm sorry. Just watch yourself.
2007-05-27 08:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends a little how exactly you conversation earlier about them not being attractive went. If you made some comment about how attractive you think they can be, he might just have been trying to re-evaluate his position.
But it might be cause for concern if he's lying about what he likes and then looking it up. As for him trying to hook up, do you think he would do that? Would you have been even remotely concerned about it if you hadn't caught him searching for army chicks online?
Basically it boils down to whether you trust him or not. If you do, then this is not important. If you don't, well then this still isn't too important, because you already didn't trust him and this is just adding to it.
2007-05-27 07:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here is what my wife often says to me, If you don't look once your not a man, if you look twice your not a husband. Being in search of it would make it the latter. You need to sit down and have a serious talk with him about it. Maybe your should go to the PX and get yourself a uniform and seduce him when he gets home. It may be a fantasy that he is trying to fulfill. Be a bad little Private, Have him discipline you. *Wink* It may be just what the doctor ordered.
2007-05-27 07:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by gearnofear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is USAF and we have been married for 15years, since we were 18years old. We have always had an open and honest relationship with each other, especially with sex and pornography. I don't mind him looking, it's not a big deal to me, especially being married after 15 years, but because I TRUST him. However, I do feel hurt and betrayed when he looks without inviting me to look with him or if I am pregnant and he is looking. It is a normal feeling for women, BUT if your husband was looking for Army girls in a SPECIFIC location (i.e. the location he is going to) then girl, do NOT even tolerate it. STOP IT NOW, put your foot down and tell him that it is OK and HUMAN to look at naked women (they have nice bodies and it is natural for a guy and a girl to get aroused) but NOT to look for a SPECIFIC reasoning. There is a difference between typing in 'naked girls' and 'naked girls in
2007-05-27 07:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by bethm0973 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it does sound like he lied about him thinking army women are lot good looking, just so he can ease your fears of him betraying you. men will never change, given half the chance they will cheat and he believe that by lying to you and saying he does not find them attractive he is covering his tracks. well my dear, it looks like your going to war also. do not let him think for even a minute that you do not suspect his intentions. that was very sneaky of him. i consider such actions as treacherous, don't allow him to go all the way and nip it by the bud with confrontation.
2007-05-27 07:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you can do something to not want to look at them??
can you get a costume or even wear his uniform but "sexy" it up and be his drill sargeant for a day?
your first command: "You will only answer to me, no sir and yes sir"
First get angry with him about looking at other women.. Like call him by his army title and name like "Sargeant Davidson!! You have no business looking at other women!! I am the ONLY woman in your life! Is that understood?"
(to where he should answer only "yes sir!")
then say, "I can't hear you, IS THAT UNDERSTOOD?"
(to where he should answer "yes sir" even louder)
then tell him to do 20 push ups or something like that... and while he is on the ground yell at him telling him he isn't doing it good enough.
keep ordering him around to where you end up in your bedroom together with him and then dominate him in bed with your commands? Demand him to do things a certain way, and yell at him and demand how you want it done but in a way you are criticising how drill sargeants do it..like "your not doing it fast enough sargeant!!"
make yourself the only "army woman" in his fantasies.
2007-05-27 09:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Twizzle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have no idea what the hell he is doing looking elsewhere with you around - you look very cute.
If it's the military motif he is looking for - have him 'help' you tie a camo bandana around your boobs and put on an army baseball cap and some khaki short shorts and start cleaning his rifle so to speak see where *that* leads.
2007-05-27 12:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really look like your picture you are in a win win situation as no right minded man would stray. If he does stray everyone will consider him mad and take your side. It sounds more to me like typical 28/32ish year old male who likes women and if you are concerned why don't you ask him? Then ask him if he'd object to you looking for hunks on YouTube. You are a woman for goodness sake use your intuition.
2007-05-27 08:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know about the army girls but surely are beautiful and if your husband cheats on you he is a fool...will repent...and yes he is lying....try understanding the army life..when u r on a post...how dr life becomes no enjoyment nothing so then what? army girls...da da da da da da
2007-05-27 07:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by araina_08 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋