2007-05-26 18:19:05 · 33 answers · asked by girlie 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
just ignore them, no need to communicate
2007-05-26 18:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by imreallymean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if I know I might need them as a resource in the future, and usually it catches them so off-guard that they either are A) Nice back OR B) they realize their stupid attitude doesn't bother me (even though it might, you have to play it off like it doesn't; this is what the feed off of) and they quit being mean.
BUT
If the above either didn't work or its just someone like online, I don't bother
2007-05-26 18:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. be the bigger person. if it doesn't phase you, it shouldn't phase you to be nice, and show respect to those who may not do the same for you. in this way you lay the foundation for future communication, which is the whole point. so love your enemies, as it's been said, and you may find they'll eventually come to see their ways, and respect you 10-fold for showing understanding, when perhaps no one else did. if not... it builds character and strength to stand up to people not by taking the easy way -- or plucking an eye for an eye -- but by showing the courage to be your true self even under fire.
2007-05-26 18:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by denimcap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah try to be nice to everyone that you come in contact with, there is no reason to get upset that someone doesn't like you...If you stay happy and have a positive outlook on life it's infectious.
2007-05-26 18:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by hebert103mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have but doing so would depend on what kind of relationship this person and I have and what they did. But I'm never mean back to them, if it's that bad or not someone that I'm very fond of I just ignore them unless they were to just say hi or something simple, then I'd say hi and be on my way.
2007-05-26 18:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh MY gOD i AM SO HAPPY YOU SAID THIS. this OLD WOMAN WAS BEING SO MEAN TO ME. SO two christmas es ago i made some mugs with candy and i sent one to her house. JUST to be nice. NO thank- you nothing.SHE continued to be hateful to me. So i stayed clear of her and i finally left that church. THEy were all starting to act like her. I just went on to a better place that treated me better and with Gods love. ITS strange i saw the news papers where she had committed sucide. SHE had shot her self. THE more i think about it she could of shot me. YOU just never know about cruel mean people.
2007-05-26 18:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to change everyone to your liking.
Who knows what made them the way they are.
It could be a variety of reasons. Perhaps a death in there immediate family. Who knows ?
But with people like you extending your love or friendship or kindness just maybe they will have a chance to get over it faster. new spirit music.com
2007-05-26 18:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course, when you get older and you have a job, not everyone you come in contact with will be pleasant. I just act overly friendly and smile like I was there best friend. It drives people nuts..
2007-05-26 18:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Today on a forum I was insulted as a result of being nice.
2007-05-26 18:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its in a situation where i will just piss them off more by being nice, yeah thats alot of fun.
2007-05-26 18:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i did..this girl has been a b---- to me ever since i first met her (cus she thinks im a snobb and stuck-up but im really not, this girl barely noes me) i h8 her guts but once we were writing a test and she didnt have a pencil, so i decided o give her mine just to show her tht im nice..but not much changed since then so w.e lol
2007-05-26 18:24:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋