ME.. I... i kind of like to make music.
i like to express myself artistically.
to the world i am justin, but im truly sydney..
i want a sex change...
my parents are loving, and sweet....
they dont want me to cuss or any of that...
i want to go full out goth/punk girl and expression...
but i want to do it in a beautiful way..
and i want to do it in my music...
and i want to use bad words if it lets loose emotion..
cause either way i have a good heart saying it.
i have a sexual liking towards being submissive...
and i kind of want to express that in my music.
so... parents....
no wait until im older....
i would really like to know.....
how do i start living how i want to live now...
without losing/upsetting or being looked down upon by my parents? how do i lose the fear?
they know about the sydney thing...
but the sexual stuff... and the going edgy in music....
cussing.. that... thats what im talking about
2007-05-26 17:02:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, you are entitled to be who you want to be. I encourage you to be yourself (Sydney; although I like the name Justin better and I like men more, lol). But anyway, don't care about your parents' opinions. In most cases, you either please your parents in your life, or you please YOU in YOUR life.
Best of luck Sydney/Justin ;)
Edit-Thanks for contacting me! I know it's difficult when your parents don't support you, I know that from experience. But believe me, pondering on how you should live your life doesn't make you happpy, and actually, it makes you stressed if anything. The biggest point I could possibly make to you is ignore their opinions and judgements. In time, they will accept you for who you are/want to be. At first, it's going to be extrememly difficult for you, but you have to think of yourself... They should have no right to dis-enable you to be happy and who you want to be.
Again, I wish you only the best of luck. And yes, it's difficult, but trust me, you'll be glad in the end ;)
2007-05-26 17:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Congrats on having accepting parents. If only more were like that. Anyways, I'd suggest keeping much of the rest of that away from your parents. If your parents are as conservative as you make them sound, then talking about your sexual fantasies probably is not a very wise conversation. I don't see a problem with going for the punk/goth look. I think you could probably convince them to let you get by with it if you pull it off right and explain it to them right. As for the swearing, don't do it around your parents. If they find it highly offensive and you know that, it's disrespectful to them to do it anyways. They didn't throw you out on the street for being trans like many do, show try to show them a little respect for trying to be good parents.
2007-05-26 18:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeas, I can tell you are quite the submissive one.
When your 18, hit thoose streets with whatever the *** you you want! TIll then you can be here. None of us care that your 7 and useing bad launage. Or a 12 year old who pretends to be a moose or something.
2007-05-26 21:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate - you get one life, you can choose to live it in the service of others, or use it to find out about yourself. You're pretty much stuck between the two, keep in mind parents "lease"
your life with love and nurturing until it's time to let go.
I think you'll do okay!
2007-05-26 17:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can express yourself so beautifully here.....
I can firmly believe you can face your parents with anything pet.
2007-05-26 17:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bleed Like Me..... 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
teenagers
2007-05-26 17:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋