If you lost your childhood, can you still find happiness as an adult?

Answer 1

Very very Good Question dude....
Your doubt is absolutely true and it is not just your question but it is being posed by many people in their minds and the solution is we can still find happiness as an adult even if we lost our childhood because basically there is no relationship between happiness that we ge tin child hood and that we get in adult age.....
U try to make good friends and learn good from them and start enjoying wit hand definitely u will find a different world and u feel u r the luckiest person in this world to find such beautiful friends and u will enjoy every thing in ur life and this will make up positive minded and u will go to peaks of the success..I am telling u all these because even I have lost my childhood like u but now i found very good friends and i am really enjoying my life and iam full happy and I say that selectio of good friends really really effect our personality and also future....
So All the Best and hope u will be very very happy in ur future...

Answer 2

My theory is 'no,' in a way, because a damaged childhood affects your adulthood.

Adulthood is not an automatic end of issues. No, actually, it may be the very beginning of augmented issues that were never settled during childhood. I'm living proof of that. My mom showed absolutely no affection for me, and this has made me a very shy and timid adult. It also makes the desire for affection from a female especially high, and since I'm so shy, I'm nowhere near experiencing that. So, it's a vicious cycle. Society can thank me, though, for being such a strong-willed, strong-minded person. Where most humans will have passed the mental breaking point, I continue to endure and avoid irrational actions.

Answer 3

I have hope that you can. I spent my first 3years in a hospital and spent a lot of the rest of my life in and out of hospitals. I was also sexually assaulted before age of ten and several time after. I have been in therapy for several years and things are getting better, but I haven't let my life pass me by. I have three beautiful girls whom I love dearly and the older two are on their own and are doing well. The youngest is still in high school and is getting 90 or above averages, so despite my childhood I think that you can be a productive adult and contribute something to those around you. Despite my depression and dislocated hip which means that I walk with crutches, I work at my daughters old grammar school helping parents get services for their children with disabilities. You don't have to let your childhood define you. I'm not saying it's easy but it can be done. I"m prof of that.

Answer 4

It is possible, but it tends to be the exception rather than the rule. Although people will quickly deal the "you have freewill" card, the fact of the matter is that the foundation (childhood) must be strong in order for the building (adult) to stand. If a person is willing to do the hard work of transforming themselves with a tool that works for them (Bible, psychotherapy, Buddhism, etc.), there is hope for them to have a better ending than beginning. You will have to make strong efforts and believe that if you sow the seed and continuously water it, than your harvest of joy will take place. Good luck!

Answer 5

Yes , but only if you trust in the Lord, and accept life one Day at a Time . Childhood is but a distant Memory, all that was lost can be found again.

Answer 6

I have lost my childhood when my relatives, living in babysitters and friends violated me before the age of 10 years old. I worked with Therapists for long time to helped me to overcome my lost childhood. I married a wonderful man who understood what I went thru in my life. It took therapists, my husbands and my healthy friends to help me find happiness again in my life. It just take time to heal and to find happiness.

Answer 7

You have to lose repeat lose your childhood to gain happiness as an adult. If u were to hold on to the past , can u live in the present? The' pesent ' of adulthood is full of enjoyment and hapiness. You are master of your own, no parental fretters, no dependence,full-scale freedom..best period of life..jettison your childhood..happiness is waiting to storm in..reap the whirl-wind..open the sails and rest on oars of happiness of adulthood.

Answer 8

I did it. I just had to leave my past behind me. It took picking up and moving half way across the country from everyone I knew, but I'm so happy I did. I've found that there are many good people in this world. When you're a child you don't have control over what happens to you. Now you do.

Answer 9

Yes there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. You can always find happiness, you just have to look within yourself and look to a higher power. Prayer helps many people. Give your burdens onto the Lord!