I had sex on Thursday and it's Sunday. He was wearing a condom, and he ejaculated on my breasts, he kept changing condoms also. On Friday I had a little bit of blood on my underwear, but then it stopped, then today my panties had a little bit more blood then it did Friday. My throat feels a bit swollen, and I feel a bit more hungrier than usual. Someone please help me. Please.
2007-05-26 15:32:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
And my stomach is a bit jumpy also, it could just be butterflies.
2007-05-26 15:35:14 · update #1
Be responsible, talk to an adult you trust and go see a doctor.
2007-05-26 15:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by Quexner_the_wonder_leech 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
13? Wow, don't you kids have anything better to do now days than screw up your life? When I was 13 (not too long ago, I'm only 22) I was out riding my bike, having girls sleepovers, building forts, not HAVING SEX? THATS REDICULOUS! Whats the point? Your just going to move on to another guy when this one leaves you, then to another. Sex is supposed to be a special intament time between to married people, and when timing is right for them to make a baby together, but you teenagers are ruining it, now "it's just sex". It's like sex has lost all emotional meaning, it's nothing, just another thing. THAT'S SUCH CRAP. God be a 13 year old, talk to your parents and let them know how much your screwing up your life if your pregnant. Can this guy even support you if something did happen? What do you intend to do if you get pregnant? Abortion should be out of the question since you are adult enough to make the decision to have sex than you should pay the consequences of sex. I am 8 weeks pregnant, at 6 weeks I could see the heart beat of my little baby that is growing inside me, absolutley amazing, now that I am married and can share this experience with my husband who made a vow to commit himself to me forever. I bet your BF would leave you if you got pregnant, no teenager wants that to deal with.
Talk to your parents, take a pregnancy test, and GROW UP. I'll be praying for you, you need it.
Toni Lynne
2007-05-26 15:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by tonilynne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex on Thursday and it's Sunday...today is SATURDAY?!?!? How's that work?
If he was wearing a condom, then chances are good-- you are safe?
Where are you at in your cycle?? When was your last period and when are you expecting your next?
The blood could be from your period? Or have you even had one yet? OR have you had intercourse, is this your fist time? If so that was probably your hymen bleeding...
Listen, you are ONLY 13, for heaven's sake...WHAT are you doing having sex?????? You have a big long life ahead of you...you have many years to do all of this stuff, now is not the time.
In fact, is this boy you are with, do you love him? Is he your age??? How well do you know him? He could have STD's...I mean...do you know if he has your best interest in heart? What would happen if you were to get pregnant??? You should REALLY give this ALL serioud consideration before you do this again.
Good luck...
2007-05-26 15:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by dmmls 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Unlike most of the people who have responded, Im not going to talk down to you. If you felt like you were ready to have sex then so be it. Im not saying it was the best thing in the world to do (or the smartest) but it wasnt the worst. Obviously, you've learned from your mistake because this isnt something you or your parents would be able to handle. I doubt that you are pregnant, but you wont be able to tell thos soon anyways. You need to wait to have sex until you are actually able to handle the resonsibilty of be a PARENT! Thats a job you'll have FOREVER! You cant just stop whenever you wanna hangout with your friends so if you do decide to have sex PLEASE PROTECT URSELF!!! In the meantime, stop stressing about it and wait. You're period will come, but I hope you learned what can happen.
2007-05-26 15:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by curious_georgette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the condom was used properly there's little chance you got pregnant. If it was your first time, the blood you saw is most likely from your hymen breaking or small scrapes in the vaginal wall from the friction. It's far too early to tell if you were pregnant yet anyhow. Are you having periods? If so, do you know how long your cycle is and when you're ovulating? A woman's most fertile time is approximately two weeks after the first day of her period. I suggest you go on the pill to be extra safe, or abstain from sex until you're older and able to handle it more maturely.
2007-05-26 15:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your hymen broke. Just in case you dont know what that is it is a thin barrier in your vaginia that breaks when you have sex. I think all of the other sysmptoms are paranoia. If you are this paranoid now imagine what you woul dbe if you were pregnant.
And another thing If you are not ready to possibly be pregnant then you need to either get on birth control or stop having sex. I am not tryign to tell you what to do but condoms are not always enough. I hope the best for you sweetie.
2007-05-26 15:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by slt_hospitality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he didn't ejaculate in your vagina, you ain't pregnant.
God, you know what I think? All kids should be required to watch the Maury Show.
I mean 13? What the ****? Is this a joke? It's not the first time I've heard this, but still, it never ceases to amaze.
A lot of what everyone else is saying shall make you feel ashamed, and rightfully so. Consider this a learning experience and never let it happen again, not until you're at least 18 and have some money.
2007-05-26 15:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, the guy who has sex with you is guilty of statutory rape.
Second, there is a morning after pill but I think you already are too late for that.. Should have gone to your parents ASAP.
Now what do you do? Like everyone else, sweat it out. You might get a pregnancy test at the drug store. That will tell you faster than waiting for a couple of skipped periods.
Lastly, do not have sex again until you are 16. You are putting the guy at risk of arrest every time you do it until you are that age.
13 year olds are too stupid to make decisions, as you clearly have shown.
2007-05-26 20:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by forgivebutdonotforget911 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to bleed after having sex so dont freak out just yet nausea, tiredness, or dizzyness are the first signs of pregnancy not hunger. I dont want to sound as if i am jugding you really shouldnt have sex if you are not able to deal with the consquences and i am not just talking about a baby. You are only 13 you have your whole life ahead of you. Worry about college and a career first before you worry about rearing a child. There is so much more to life then sex. True sex can be wonderful but you have to ready for it.
2007-05-26 15:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by mrsrevanonasi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bleeding is probably from your hymen breaking. I am guessing that this was your first time? You are panicking because you feel guilty. This is some heavy stuff for a 13 year old to handle. I'd advise you to abstain until you are much older. If you want to keep doing this, you need to educate yourself on STD's, pregnancy and womens health. Every town has a health office with free information and birth control options. Above all, be honest with your Mom or guardian.
Don't try to grow up overnight. Talk to your Mom, she may be hurt or upset but she will respect you for your honesty.
2007-05-26 15:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Army family. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You still have time to take the day after pill if you hurry. You are 13 hunny stop having sex and get an I Pod. The blood in your panties might be a sign that you are ovulating so you might be ok. The hunger could be PMS. But the morning after pill is ok to be safe. Ps if you continue to have sex talk to your mom about Birth controll. But still use a condom always. Take care.
2007-05-26 15:39:41 · answer #11 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋