How do i stop crushing on my boss but still be motivated?
ok im guilty for having a crush on my boss years my senior and is married. im finally on the way of being indifferent..but then i realized its affecting my motivation at work...i dont look forward to it much anymore...but my crush on the boss makes me sharper for some reason...how can i deal with this??????
2007-05-26 15:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Find a job where you have something else that motivates you.
2007-05-26 15:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by colorfulgiftofsoul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you try very hard to just concentrate on your work it will distract you from the constant reminder that you have this crush. Become very focused and involved in whatever immediate project you are working on. If you dive into it you will eventually become more motivated because you will see the results of all your hard work and it will give you a boost to your pride in your work.
You could also redirect your thoughts by finding a new crush to focus on. This time though try to spark one that is not at your work place. Even if it isn't a serious crush it will give you something to steer your thoughts towards besides your boss.
I think it may just take some time so be patient and it will pass. Hope this helps.
2007-05-26 22:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would seem to me that you want to impress your boss for some reward, other than money. Making him notice you is probably what motivates you and you have a desire to be noticed and possibly pursued. I recommend counseling, because this problem would likely arise in other situations as well, and it is not healthy.
2007-05-26 22:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by cavassi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screw Him in his office, then he wont ever expect you to do any actual work anywayz and u won't need any motivation 'cept to wipe the *** from yo face
2007-05-26 22:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by SN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Free yourself...find another job that challenges you on it's own merits.
2007-05-26 22:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by maisie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋