2007-05-26 12:22:03 · 38 answers · asked by naughty lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. There are other ways a man can pleasure his mate to keep her happy and being with another man will only lead to a lot of problems
2007-05-26 12:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not all about your husband at that point! If you cannot tolerate the low sex drive maybe he could go visit with Dr to find out if there is an organic problem. Non organic problems are things such as depression, etc. and organic would be a physical medical problem. It could be as easy as getting a script for some viagra!
Could you really do this to your husband? It would be like kicking him in the heart while he is down. If you are even considering this you should first put the shoe on the other foot and see what you would think. And know that even though he says this to you I am sure it hurts him emotionally to think some other guy has to pleasure his wife because he can't but also he is taking a major hit with his man-hood with it.
I love my husband and really don't think that he is all about his sex drive. There are many ways of pleasuring a woman and if he cant do it one way he can do it another!
Good luck to you both with this!
2007-05-26 12:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by phxmilitarymom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, although there are some guys out there that actually get turned on by watching their wife/gf with another guy. Very weird.
I think I would be kind of worried that the hubby was setting me up for divorce on the grounds of adultery or something, but then I'm a pretty suspicious person anyway, lol.
2007-05-26 12:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love your questions. I am impressed with the loyalty of the women here, especially when they are free to answer truthfully and anonymously. I will say that I must have really toned down my jealously, territorialness, etc. because I have thought about asking this. But, it is my girl who has a low sex drive. I think if I let her do this, it may bring her drive alive. She has given me the ok to have sex with other women and this does fulfill me but I do want her to be happy too so I occasionally let her know it would be ok with me too.
They say its the men that bring women to "swinging" but it is generally the women that keep the couple involved. I infer from this that while women go into it more cautiously, they definitely enjoy it once in. FOR STRONG RELATIONSHIPS ONLY.
2007-05-26 17:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by tryitallx1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never know what is really on his mind he could be serious or it could be a test. If he's serious the downside most relationships just are not strong enough to handle situations like that. You have your fun then he starts to feel even more inadequate which pushes deeper then depression could show up then your marriage is history. Then there is the test he might want to see if you would actually do it then he would know that you could cheat on him. This whole situation has tragedy written all over it. Instead he should be seeing his doctor and getting help that's what a real husband does.....
2007-05-26 12:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like a low-sex-drive thing to me. He may be bi-curious and want to get another dude into the bedroom but just can't admit it. Some guys are turned on by swinging and sharing their wives. Before you get with some other man, make sure you know your husband's real motivations and make sure everyone's being honest with each other. Otherwise you're stepping on a land mine.
2007-05-26 12:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Urlacher Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I could never do that because loving someone is more than just sex! I would make due with what he could give to me and if he loved me he would find other ways to please. I would see that person through anything in life as long as he respected and loved me. He is my best friend and we share all the good with the bad together. I would never desire to be with anyone other than the one I love. I would not hurt him or make him feel less of a man and I will love him and take him for just the way he is. If he lost both of his legs I would carry him and if he lost his sight I would lead the way. My husband is my soul mate and no sexual desire in the world would ever want me to be with anyone else.
2007-05-26 12:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda shocking, a lot of guys would never want their lady to be with another guy- with another girl, well sure. How about working on his sex drive cuz the other person thing is sure to cause issues later, no matter how open and liberal you are
2007-05-26 12:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not. I would deal with the low sex drive and not cheat on my hubby.
2007-05-26 12:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many adult men are purely captivated with intercourse. i've got faith that he certainly desires to visual show unit you as you're having intercourse with yet another guy. the certainty that he would not care is a worry certainly. This guy is obviously the undesirable-boy variety and that's what you detect captivating. i assume stay with him in case you think of he can provide you with "that feeling" yet you may desire to be arranged for the eventual harm down of this dating in some way.
2016-10-08 21:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋