im sick of being judged. im sick of not being the pretty one out of my friends. im sick of guys being so judgmental and don't care about personality. why is my life not going so well? i want it to stop. does anyone else feel this way?
2007-05-26 12:18:44 · 26 answers · asked by sup yo 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i agree. when you get a lil older things will get better. find a nice shy guy to date. my bf is so shy, but he thinks im the most amazing thing out there (even though i know im not)
2007-05-26 12:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by neverland22 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are just around the wrong guys. They aren't quality if they only judge a girl on looks. You don't want a guy like that anyway, so quit sweating them. You are better than that. If you let other peoples opinions consume you, you will never be happy. There is not one woman on the planet that is beautiful to everyone. That is just how it is. If you believe you are beautiful, that is all that matters and it will show A confident girl that is less pretty will attract more people than a pretty girl with no confidence. Live by that!
2007-05-26 12:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by K.A. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I feel exactly the same. All the guys in my town ignore me because I'm not pretty and they don't even bother to learn about my personality. But I'm just staying optomistic and praying that after I leave this town maybe I'll find some better guys. Keep your chin up!
2007-05-26 12:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have been hanging around the wrong crowd. Meet some new friends with real heart. Do not let yourself be judged by others. Who are they to judge who is pretty? Pretty is inside also.
2007-05-26 12:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by WE 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy, and I don't judge girls that way. I think it's cruel that guys in your life judge you like that. Find a guy out there that doesn't judge people like that. I know that sounds impossible, but there are a select few out there. Live your life despite what they think.
Hope that helps! :)
2007-05-26 12:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by SOS 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's exactly how I feel. I hang out with about 6 of my best friends at school, and I'm the least pretty out of all of them!!! Sometimes I wish that we weren't judged on our looks and clothes, but in my school that's impossible.
2007-05-26 12:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is, don't act like a garden-variety, expectation-filled, "what's-in-it-for-me" girl so guys won't treat you like that.
I'm in the dating phase and nothing turns me off more than a girl you can't even approach because of the "material girl" attitude.
I want to be a gentleman, so please be a lady if you think you want that from me.
And yes, I want the bad vibes between men and women to stop.
2007-05-26 12:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yah, you think Im happy with the way you girls judge me because of the way i look?
And then you wonder why some of us guys are pigs
2007-05-26 12:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up, sweety. No one else live life for you but yourself. If you're sick of them then the shallow ones shouldn't be worth a second of your time.
2007-05-26 12:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
aww sweetie
its gonna get better ; i can promise you that
when i was in 8th grade, i was a tall girl with pimples and bad fashion !
can you imagine?
no boy wanted me. actually they used me to get to my best friends.
but now i found a great guy who loves me
everything will go back to normal again! dont waste your time on jerks who only judge your appearance.
when a guy is able to remember everything you ever told him, then you know he's the one <3
:)
2007-05-26 12:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋