I always want to spend time with my boyfriend. We both work a lot and go to school..usually - by the time we see eachother - its late at night...so we go grab something to eat and go back to my house and go to bed.
Today he took the day off from work to attend my aunts 50th birthday. we left the party 2 hours later (at 4pm) and had the rest of the day to ourselves.. the problem is that there is nothing to do!! we actually got into an argument over it (well, not so much an argument - i just started crying)... We always go out to eat (and neither of us was hungry)...we saw all the good movies, and you can only walk around the mall so many times in one week before it gets totally and completely boring.
We're both 20 years old and living at home.. our houses are both pretty crazy so we like to spend time AWAY from our houses ... we're not into dancing/the club scene... what else is there to do??
Its 7pm on a saturday night and i'm sitting in my room alone.
2007-05-26 11:55:32 · 4 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Somebody mentioned that I'm sitting here because I want to and that I'd have jumped at going anywehre that he wnated to go...
the problem is that he cant decide where he wants to go. Thats basically the problem. I'm the one who always has to decide. I ask him and he always says "I dont know, i want to go where ever you want to go".... and he'll just drive around or sit there until i tell him were we could go....
I've told him so many times that I want him to decide where we can go ... but he never knows!!
2007-05-26 12:02:08 · update #1
1. Take a walk in the park together or workout together.
2. Get in the car and just drive around town and talk (although gas is crazy right now). or park somewhere and just talk.
3. Go to Barnes and Nobles...take a board game with you and have fun!
2007-05-26 12:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And? You're sitting there because you want to. Otherwise you would have jumped at the chance to go out with your boyfriend no matter where he wanted to go.
2007-05-26 18:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what should i advise to you.For me I will go and wash my car later and do and clean your home if you have mess before
2007-05-26 19:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by amee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a meaningful conversation.
2007-05-26 18:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋