well ,this year i went to another skool and now i got new friends and so .. .every year at the last day of skool which is going to be soon i go out with my friends the whole day but this year my new friends are doing the same thing and they like begged me to go with them and my old friends havent said anything till now about where we r going or anything .and now am like What shoud i do ? should i say no to my new friends or just wait for my old friends to tell me thier plans ? and if i went with my new friends am i like betraying my old friends i dunno . both are going to diffrent places and they both are kinda sure that am going with them lol . i havent said anything to anyone about what i will do? am not sure myself what am gonna do ...tell me anything that could help me plzzz
2007-05-26 10:06:27 · 11 answers · asked by Angle heart 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well your old friends know you well and so they should understand that you are in a new school and are trying to re -enforce your friendship and trust in them and so i think you should talk to your old friends and tell them this and ask them to please understand.
Go with the new friends and have fun!!
2007-05-26 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by MichM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could split your time between the two groups. If your old friends have not contacted you then go with the new friends and don't worry about it. I would go to the place that I think would be the most fun for me and if these people old or new are your friends they will understand. You could go half the day with the old friends and meet up with the new friends later or vica versa. Either way have fun and remember that you will always be meeting new people and you will only stay in touch with few of your old friends as you grow and become interested in other things.
2007-05-26 10:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by nerakian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the invitation you've already accepted, or been given; decline the second invitation with "Oh, I'm SO sorry, but I've already said I'd do something else."
Your old friends haven't yet invited you; go with the new.
Can you not see your old friends during the summer, to keep the friendships going?
It's not betrayal, since they haven't even asked you yet.
2007-05-26 14:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...looks like u r a popular person between friends..thats a gr8 work...newayz,if i was u then i should first like to to cheak which friend circle is really important to me...if they both r ur real friends and u really care for them then u can hang out with both groups...try to make a schedule..if itsn't possible then talk to them ..specially talk with ur old friends...they r most important....then if u think its quite impossible then u should go with ur new friends...because ur old friends know u and they will understand u...but ur new friends r new!!if u show care for them they will also care u and they will make u comfortable in ur new school...so choose wisely..best of luck
2007-05-26 10:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by ragingtempest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can go to both... different times, or maybe, you can combine your groups of friends and show them both that you care enough to want to introduce them to ur other friends. Maybe they'll get along really well!
2007-05-26 10:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aren't you old enough to make a simple decision like this? They're all your friends.
2007-05-26 10:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just wait and see what your old friends are doing and maybe you can do both
2007-05-26 10:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Queen B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhmm ey you aint betraying your old friends if you go wit your new firends
2007-05-26 10:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where do you go to SKOOL. I would like to know so my kids don't go there.
2007-05-26 10:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
thts tough but mayb you schould ask ur new friends and ur old friends if they would go somewere toghether
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gooo0o0d luck :]
2007-05-26 10:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋