I'm not normally a jealous person, but this woman was such a ***** to me and tried to break my husband and I up.. and she claims that he proposed to her when they were dating (about 6 months before we started dating), though he denies it. She friend requested him, he added her back, and it really bothers me. Am I just jealous or would this bother you, too?
2007-05-26 09:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by ... 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet ➔ MySpace
Its easy to understand why you feel this way, but its your husband, should be more considerate, at least if hes doing this, it meant hes not trying to hide anything from you, rather then all the posts here before asking how to crack Yahoo / MSN password so they can see what the other half is doing.
2007-05-26 09:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cupcake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn``t really bother me.
First of all, i do not take myspace serious at all.
The only networking site i use really serious is LinkedIn - but that is more for professional networks.
Second, if you know your partner and trust him - you should care not for others, just for him/her. If your relation is solid, there is no real reason for worry. They split up for a reason, i`d say.
If it does bother you - talk to your husband. Communication is important, and talking even more so - in ANY relation.
2007-05-26 09:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so much nicer than me. Oh, my gosh... I would be like, hell no. There's no way my husband would have his ex who tried to break us up as a FRIEND on MySpace. That is so far beyond okay. He shouldn't have added her knowing that she tried to break you guys up... he should be as angry at her as you are... maybe even more so!
My answer: Yes, it would very, very, VERY much bother me.
If I were you, I'd tell him it's time to tell her "bye bye" or say "hello" to the couch, indefinitely.
2007-05-26 09:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 100% trust in my man he has his ex's on his profile and they talk on the phone and it does not both me. Because i know where his heart is and who he comes home too. So if you trust him a 100% it should not bother you. But if it makes you feel better you can alway add your ex's too.
2007-05-26 09:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly_nova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would bother me very much. There is no reason that your ex needs to be on your friends page, reading your blog, emailing you, etc. He could have left her as pending, or denied her invitation.
2007-05-28 16:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like it, but I would bring up a conversation about it and how I feel and why with out blame and using the phrase, " I feel . . . because she/I . . . " He should be able to understand your reasoning and value your feelings, he might then take her off. End by asking why he added her. Be ready to listen to, not respond to his reasoning afterwards.
2007-05-26 09:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get where you're coming from. You should talk to you husband and let him know how you feel. But, keep in mind that if he truly loves you, you don't need to worry about her coming between you.
2007-05-26 09:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Josh C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly where you are coming from....if it was a ex that is polite to you and has obviously no intrest in stealing your husband that would be one thing but the kind of ex you are talking about i would be mad about!
2007-05-26 09:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea I'd be mad.....why even have her in his life. obviously he must want to contact her..for what? I don't know maybe some bad *** sex...maybe not...
2007-05-26 09:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by snooptwoten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋