Do you think this is healthy or am I just being lazy? Please tell me what your thoughts are? I tend to do this after a busy week. Is this normal?
2007-05-26 08:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I posted it in divorce by accident, but yes I have been somewhat depressed. I just want everybody to leave me alone after a busy week. I don't know why.
2007-05-26 09:23:15 · update #1
I dont think thats a bad thing...We all need time away from others, its not like your doing it everyday....
2007-05-26 22:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE deserves some 'me time.' Doesn't matter if you've been married for a day or a lifetime (I'll leave the obvious joke out so I can remain serious...as difficult as that is for me!) In a sense, that's how we 'recharge' for the rigours of life. It allows us to know that we are worth something to ourselves, for truly we must take care of ourselves before we can care for others. This is a very general answer but I hope you get my point. You take time for yourself because you need it. Not a thing wrong with that, so long as you don't do it all the time, every day...
2007-05-26 09:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal. It's your way of settling down after a long day of working and relaxing. Your family and friends should respect the fact that you're a busy girl and that you need time to unwind every once in a while.
But make sure that you're not completely withdrawing from them. I'm sure they want to fit somewhere in your schedule from time to time.
2007-05-26 08:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Me ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just need to unwind, just make sure they know that and that you are not being rude or ignorant. If you are under stress during the week it is only natural that you want to relax and be alone. Good luck :)
2007-05-26 09:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by piano19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I just don't give a rat's behind about people and want to be left along for a day. If it's a random thing, fine. If it's every day, it could be a problem.
2007-05-26 08:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you know when you need a break and care enough about yourself to have some time for you. As long as it is not negatively effecting your life, it sounds like a good thing.
2007-05-26 08:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by angelfish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is normal any way. i do the same thing but i call it my alone time. and yes i do need it when everything seems to be happening at ones. for me its Mondays
2007-05-26 09:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by teadropsue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do the exact same...all the time!!!! i know how you feel!
you just dont feel like seeing people or doing anything...i really dont know why we do this but my estimate is that we are heartbroken or depressed(even secretly) and need to recover
-hope i helped
2007-05-26 09:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by The Queen of Acting<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does shutting off include your ability to comprehend; you posted your question in divorce.
2007-05-26 08:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by ark 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that is the best way you have found to relieve stress and anxiety then it is perfectly fine. Everyone deserves to have "me" time...it's rare to find...so if you can do it - enjoy!
2007-05-26 08:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋