Okay .. well i was crazy over this older boy for a while and we were talkin .. but wit the family not liking that . and us not being able to hang out that much, and my shyness,(others words. i wouldnt have sex wit him), it all came to a unhappy ending. he told me he couldnt deal wit the age difference but he still loved me. but then he started talkin to my best friend (the same age as me)in the whole world. and told her he never loved me .. he just meant as a friend. he lies bout me all the time now!!! and my friend keeps ditching me to hang out wit him .. and shes not the same towards me anymore. and wen i talk to either one of them. .. i cant breath. i just break down and cry while remembering the good times!! i need help to get over the both of them and move on wit my life!!! HELP PLEASE!
2007-05-26 06:20:38 · 4 answers · asked by C C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know exactly wat u mean. therez this really cute guy @ my skool, and hez like my best guy friend. and all these girls like him, but he only pays attention to me and this other girl (1 that i'm not friend w/) well anyway i was ok w/ that, cuz i knew thata he cared about me. and i had probs w/ him sumtimes hanging out w/ her and not me, but i got ovur it cuz he needs his space. it was like a game. w/ me and the other girl as players. well the special part about the game was that he chose the players, and i was one of them. i was really happy, but then he bought another girl into the game, and i couldn't take it. he sat @ our table, but she sat next to him. i ran out of the caf. our next class was different, and so i thought about it, and i thought i cld be cool w/ it. but then i saw then walking to class together and i broke down.
i'm srry 4 telling u all this, but i i think my ponit is that guyz aren't woth it.
2007-05-26 06:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide and make up in your mind that you are going to get over them for good. They were not and are not worth having you as a friend. Try meeting some new people. Take a friend and go out, enjoy life again. When the thoughts of them start to cloud your mind, put that thought aside by thinking about something more pleasant. And after a while, you will see that you think about them less and less, then eventually never. But you decide to get over them and go out and live life again.
2007-05-26 13:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAD . For now give yourself space. Very awkward situation. They are attracted to each other for whatever reason. (of their own...of course) Let them do what they need too,in the mean time move on. Accept that what you had with him is over. Somehow accept the connection that is developing between them. If you hope to remain (or want to remain) friends with either of them. Focus on what makes you happy for now.
Good luck
2007-05-26 13:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by lckyblys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy's a horndog - he'll say anything to get into a girl's pants. You found out about it ahead of time. Your friend may find out the hard way. You can try warning her, but don't be surprised if she has to learn the hard way.
Let's hope he doesn't have any STDs.
2007-05-26 13:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋