I have been really good friends with this dude for a couple of years now and we had everything in common and were pretty much inseperable. We were fine till he started going out with this chick. I have nothing against her, so i tried to be friends with her but she just brushed me off. Then one day my friend cut off all his hair changed his style and became religious. I admitt it made me mad that he changed himself for a chick but i still love the dude either way. But now he completely stop talking to me and at school he is just indifferent towards me. Currently she broke up with him but he is still trying to win her back. When I talked to him about it he just told me that he is doing this because he wants to mature and strengthen his relationships with other people. Then before I knew it he started rumors about me with his new friends. I'm tired of being nice and i just dont know what to do in this current situation.
2007-05-26 06:16:02 · 5 answers · asked by afidork95 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
btw the dude is in total denial about everything
2007-05-26 07:36:15 · update #1
He is just going through a change in his life, if you (2) are good friends, he will not forget about you.
Just give him some space.
2007-05-31 19:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple....he chose her over you. He was okay with ending the good friendship you once had & he loved for some random girl he met. If he really cared for you & your relationship, he would have never rejected you when this "Chick" came along. There will be other times. You may feel a bit heart broken but it isn't him you miss. It's the memories which will soon disapear. It is very hard to walk away from a friend who was like your brother but, soon or later, you will find another friend & he'll be there for you. Everyone has a ride or die friend. You ride togeda...You die togeda...bad boys for life.
Love,
Christine
2007-06-03 11:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that has happened to me 2, tell him shes not worth it, if she doesn't want him back then it wasn't ment to be. He shouldn't have to WASTE HIS TIME trying to get her back. That girl probably didn't like you because she might have thought you were a threat to her. TALK TO HIM (hope i helped) :-)
2007-05-26 13:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he not being a good friend by doing that i think the best thing to do is to give him time then maybe he will realize that he is wrong
2007-05-29 15:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by bubblegum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else to be friends with
2007-06-03 06:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋