hi how can i ask my boyfriend to take a test to see if he can have babys and me of course
2007-05-26 05:15:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Wait until you are married, then let nature take its course. If after you are married and have been trying for awhile, if need be take a test.
2007-05-26 05:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Oh me oh my...♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have reason to think that you're not able to have children? If you've been trying for at least 6 months to no avail, then tell him that you want to seek medical advice. Then, both of you go to a fertility specialist and they will take it from there. Don't expect your boyfriend to make an appointment on his own and get checked out on his own... he'll probably start feeling incompetent and like this is all his fault. If it hasn't been at least 6 months, just keep trying.
2007-05-26 12:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have to even ask such a question shows a lot of immaturity and ignorance.Are you worried he cannot father children?If you're at a point that you want to plan children with this person,why on earth are you not close enough to discuss it? Have you been trying to get pregnant already? If so,I sure hope he knows about it!
2007-05-26 12:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by dog8it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two engaged? If you aren't married, and not planning on it soon, I don't see why you would be so worried about fertility. I guess in some ways I wish I had my first husband take a fertility test, as it would have saved us a lot of trouble later on.
2007-05-26 12:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Alyssa and Chloe's Mommy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first see if he want to have babies with you cause most of the time they dont, and the best test you can take is the real one start punching hole in condoms with a pin and if you are not with child after a while go and check your eggs to make sure they aren't rotten yet
2007-05-26 12:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe tell him its standard procedure that you both are tested to see if your compatible but make it so its all about you being tested mainly but they have to check the guy for a couple things as well ...i would make up some sort of story like that if hes weird about it
2007-05-26 12:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by westbaxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be honest with him.if he really loves u then he wont have a problem with it and he will do it. and u should tell him to relax in case hes nervous. tell him all u want is the truth. but if he cant have kids and if thats what u want, you r going to have to make that desion yourself. good luck!
2007-05-26 12:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by happy person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married first and then go in for fertility testing.
2007-05-26 12:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋