My friend is 13 and going to be 14 in August, she wears granny panties and get her clothes from the kids dep. at JC Penny and she gets them at Limited Too but that is liek the only place shw ill shop. We are in High school and the whole school hates her and says she stupid bcuz of how she dresses and how she does her hair which is another story..My other friends suggested I take her shopping with me but she wouldnt even look at clothes in Hollister or American Eagle she went off by herself to Limited Too and JC Penny Kids Dept. WHAT can I do to save her from 4 more years of high school where everyone hates her??
2007-05-26 05:00:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She isn't that cool though.
2007-05-26 05:05:07 · update #1
ALSO SHE STRUTS WHAT SHE DONT HAVE..SHE WALKS LIKE A GRANNY AND STICKS HER BUTT OUT WITH HER PANTS UP TO HER BOOBS AND STICK HER 34AA CHEST SAYIN SHE WILL DIE IF HER BOOBS GET ANY BIGGER
2007-05-26 05:09:08 · update #2
If I wasn't her "friend" then she woudl be alone everyday at school bcause seriously I am the ONLY person in the school who tries to tolerate her and be her friend..
2007-05-26 06:26:14 · update #3
let her be herself. it shouldn't matter how she looks if she's a cool person.
2007-05-26 05:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why are you so concerned about the way your friend dresses? Not everybody shops at American Eagle, The Gap, or Abercrombie and Fitch. She has her own sense of style and you as her friend should accept that. Keep in mind that your friend is still developing and as she gets older, her style will change. There is no need for to you worry about whether everyone in high school will hate her or not. I don't buy name brand clothing, but I do have my own sense of taste in fashion. Continue to be there for your friend and value her friendship because true frienships last forever. You cannot change your friend's style and you need to accept that. Good luck and don't worry of what others will think of her.
2007-05-26 05:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter how your friend dress right? She's still your friend. Not everybody shops at American Eagle, the Gap or even Old Navy. Maybe she likes the clothes they offer and she feels comfortable wearing them. She's still developing as well and it will take her some time to make a change. I myself don't really buy brand name clothes at times, but that doesnt mean I have no sense of style. You can take your friend and offer some suggestions, but let her make the final decision. As a friend, you'll respect that
2007-05-26 05:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Philly_Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should not make her wear what she doesnt want to wear. mabye for her birthday buy her a nice shirt from hollister that is almost the sort of style she likes from limited too- if she likes it, whenever you buy her a gift get her something a bit different from what she gets each time. perhaps soon she will see that clothes that she likes can be found almost the same at a better store. hope it works!
2007-05-26 05:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dapylil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping together and tell her to allow you to pick out an outfit for her and she can do the same for you. Each of you have to allow the other to be completely outfitted by the other and no questions asked. Make sure you keep within eachothers budget however.
2007-05-26 05:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should buy her some cl others but dint put the idea that you dint like her cl others .Then when she is over your house asked her can you play in her hair but do it cute that way she can keep it in.(I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD TELL HER COULD YOU ARE HER FRIEND YOU SHOULD LET HER IN.if SHE FIND OUT A DIFFERENT WAS SHE WOULD FEEL HURT CUZ YOU ARE HER FRIEND)
2007-05-26 05:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. i had the same problem with my friend.. i invited her to a sleepover, but didn't mention that we would go shopping together. I went to the shops with her, and told her to try on some clothes, where as i took pictures of her wearing them, and gave her lots of compliments and told her how good she would look. when we came home, i gave her a make over, i put on make up and coloured her hair... she loved it... and now she is one of the most popular girls in our grade....
i wish you good luck with her, and cheer her up... tell her how good she looks, give her compliments.....
xxx
2007-05-26 05:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make her change her look all at once, suggest things over time like those lower riding jeans or the form fitting top, suggest both of you going to get your hair done together, just not all in one day
2007-05-26 05:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her dress how she wants to, it's her decision. You can push her in the right direction, but like don't force her. And if she bugs you so much why are you her friend? :S I'm not saying you shouldn't be...
2007-05-26 06:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by sophieee92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is her own person. I'm sure you made it clear what other people sat and she doesn't care. Let her be her own person. Besides, clothes don't make the person.
2007-05-26 05:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is you're not her friend is you're talking like this about her.
You obviously don't know how to accept her for who she is when you call her a friend...so, how can anyone else who isn't her friend accept her?
You're not being there for her...you're trying to change her.
2007-05-26 05:12:29 · answer #11 · answered by Lina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋