He's 12, and when he told me I blew up at him and had him move in with his mom. I felt bad then and now I want him to move back in with me, but he doesnt even want to look at me. I relised that being gay just means you are in to the oppisite sex. How can I say sorry
2007-05-26 04:43:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Tell him exactly what you just told us. That you realized that being gay is just wanting to be with someone of the same sex, that it nothing to be ashamed of, that you overreacted at first, and that you are terribly sorry. Be sincere and that should work. I give you serious props for accepting your son for who his is, as many parents aren't as open a you are....Good luck :o)
2007-05-26 04:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by city girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you had the same response a lot of us would give him some time and then sit down and talk to him i know it must be hard but he is your child and no matter what you;ll always luv him ask your ex to explain to him you wre in shock and you wanna talk it over good luck hope it works out!
2007-05-26 11:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man good luck with this one. To him he probably thinks you disowned him and then you factor in that he is only 12! I think you should show him that you accept him how he is but the forgiveness probably won't come until he is ready.
2007-05-26 11:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by Landra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the parent. If he is 12, then sit down and talk with him. He doesn't have to respond, but he will listen to everything you say. tell him you love him. and that you made a mistake
2007-05-26 11:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize to him and tell him your feelings. both you and your son need to talk openly, at a time like this in his life he really needs you. whatever you do don't turn your back on him. love and support him at what he wants. be thankful he told you and you didn't find out through someone else. apparently he felt comfortable enough with you to tell you himself.
2007-05-26 11:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you over-reacted and you just needed time to let it sink in.
Tell him that you love him and will support him every step of the way.
And most of all, thank him for being honest with you.
2007-05-26 11:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sparky5115 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! that was aweful! sry but it wuz. U should sit down and talk to him about it. Tell him that its ok. but then tell him how u really fell about it. It his decision though. You dint really have a say in it.
2007-05-26 11:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by kellyispoiled 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to work at showing him how sorry you are. It may take a while to regain his trust.
2007-05-26 11:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Evil Girl Geniuz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...Why not pick up the phone, and say I'm sorry? It's that simple...
2007-05-26 11:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he'll be fine without you in his life actually.
BTW, nice fake trollish question.
2007-05-26 11:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋