is it wrong for me to like some one who is 7 years older than me? im 15 and he's 22, i know it looks funny now but when im 20 he'll be 26 so it doesn't seem as bad, is it wrong?
2007-05-26 03:38:37 · 25 answers · asked by Xx_Ickle~Me_xX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To be honest, It depend on the maturity levels of all involved. If your parents are ok with it then who are we to say. If your parents arent ok with it then there is your answer. Trust them they have your best interest at heart, and most parents are pretty good judges of character. If they dont approve ask them to seriously sit down with you and explain why, this will be a mature response and they may reconsider there choice. Or they will tell you there concerns. If I had a 15 year old daughter, I probably would not want her to date a guy in his 20's, only because he has so much more life experience than a 15 year old and there will be times when the child will be pressured to be more adult than they are.
Not only with the whole sex issue, but if he want to go to a bar with friends, and you cant go, so you either sneak in and risk getting in truoble, or you are pissed because he went without you.
Keep in mind when your 20 and hes 26, you will have had alot more life lessons, and it evens the playing field.
2007-05-26 03:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then wait until ur 20 and he is 26.
This whole thing creeps me out--been there, done that and I think at 15 you are in such a different place in your life than a 22 year old.
You are flattered and interested, I get that.
But I really would like to hear from a 22 year old--why can't you get a date with someone your own age?
The real answer should scare the crap out of you. But I doubt you will see it bc you don't want to.
RUN my child, RUN away as fast as you can!
2007-05-26 10:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by wildatheart 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to date a 26 (or 27) year old when you are 20. Go for it.
But, at 15, you are too young to be dating someone who is 22. There is just way to big a gap in life experience and where you are (or should be) in you life right now.
2007-05-26 10:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by Pammie aka Lil Miss Perky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At 15 you are too young, and for him to like someone who is 15 he has major issues. Your hormones are outta wack at this age. I would not consider this a healthy relationship at all. When you're 20 and you want to date someone who is say 26, you're old enough to deal with the emotional stuff that comes with age and maturity. You are not the same person at 15 that you will be at 20..slow down. Besides if he's 20 and looking to date a 15 year old, he doesn't respect you.
2007-05-26 10:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only reason they see it wrong is because your still under age and if something happens to you he could go to jail. Think about it. And when you turn 20 he'll be 27 not 26
2007-05-26 10:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in your situation. I was 17 and he was 27. Sweetie it's illegal. And although you can't see now except for what you want to see, it's best to not pursue this relationship. You'll end up regretting it. To this guy you're young, hot and probably has a nice tight body. Thats his soul interest. Ask him if he'd want someone to pursue his daughter as he's pursuing you. This guy is a pedophile. Do inform your parents, prayerfully they're loving enough to protect they're child. I'd say date boys you're own age but then again teen boys can be such horn dogs and twice as bad. Focus on school right now, easier said than done. Heck even try saving yourself for marriage. Give to your husband what NO man has had. Every man wants to be #1 in a woman's eye not to mention her pants. Good luck and God bless. I'll be praying for you.
2007-05-26 14:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Gir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I don't think the guy is too old for you. However, you will have to be a little more careful around him comparing with guys your own age. He is 22 so there are expectations he has towards you, which will be different those who are 15.
2007-05-26 10:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you can like him all you want, just dont date him. The age difference at this point is too vast. As you get older the gap will get smaller but right now you're still a teen and he's an adult. Worship from afar.
2007-05-26 10:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Girly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's wrong to like him. But it would seem a bit wrong if you would be together with him. Oh yeah.. lol.. when you're 20 he'll be 27.. (20+ 7) ;)
2007-05-26 10:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Very unwise to get involved with a man of 22 at your young age. You're underage, it would be illegal for him to be in a relationship with you.
You're better off focusing on school and hanging out with people closer to your age group.
2007-05-26 10:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by bean counter 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋