well see i'm going to the mall today to see pirates of the caribbean 3 with a few of my friends right. & coincidently this girl that hates me and has been spreading really mean and untrue rumors about me almost half the school year is going to be there and she's bringing her friend who most likely hates me too since she's such a round character. i dont even know why she hates me but i dont want things to go bad or be akward today. how do u think i should handle this situation. i'm not gonna let her affect my decision on going or not so please dont make that an option. thank you. best answer gets 10 points!
2007-05-26 02:55:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Which girl? She's invisible! Just go and have a great time. Pretend she's not there at all. Act natural. Be yourself. Whistle a happy tune!
Good luck!
2007-05-26 02:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by love2travel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl (the one that hates you) what you did that was so wrong. If she ignores you or cannot come up with a REAL reason then she is jealous, or going for attention. Some feel that they just have to be important all the time. If that is the case, then ignore her. Trust me, you have better things to do then worry about someone who has to act like a child. She is acting like this because she knows that it is bothering you. As soon as you let it be known that it doesn't bother you she will move on. One of my favorite things to do is be her best friend. If you see her chat it up!! Like the two of you are the most wonderful friends in the world. Then "catch you later" say bye and leave. You and your friends will be giggling and she wont know what to do. You can be the bigger person. It makes all the difference.
2007-05-26 03:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have these stories being spread, and there are laws to protect you from slander, even when you and the slanderer are minors. Tell your parents what's going on. They may be able to get the girl to stop by talking to her parents.
If that doesn't work, ask them to help you file a small claims suit aginst her AND her parents. Sue for the maximum allowable in small claims court.
Be prepared to settle for a full public apology in lieu of a cash settlement. This will be an education for everyone involved, that there are legal limits to what can be said about another person.
You might be afraid of violent retaliation. You have legal recourse there, too. If she threatens you, you can ask for a restraining order that requires her to stay a set distance away from you. If the situation persists into the school year, she would have to find another school if you currently go to the same school. This would be strong motivation for her to learn to behave.
As to the movie, I assume that the theatre is large enough so that you can keep your distance. Do so.
2007-05-26 03:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by nightserf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People these days..Why can't we all just get along? Haha..Well real sorry that this girls not being at her nicest, Which to you is probably an understatement, But I think maybe a good way to handle the situation is to maybe take her aside and ask her what you could have done to have her acting this way, If shes to stubborn to act nicely then it's up to you to just kill her with kindness (not literally) and maybe she'll turn around. If thissss doesn't work then you just have to keep in mind that girls like this aren't worth getting upset over..Sure she'll spread rumors but you know what's true and what's not..I hope you enjoy the movie :)
2007-05-26 03:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she shouldn't hate you for no reason unless she's like jealous or something. Don't cancel your plans! Go with your friends and have a great time. If you bump into the girl don't whisper to your friends that she's here in front of her because then she'll get even more mad at you. She probably won't but if she makes a sarcastic smile at you, give her a smile back. Try to forget about her going and think about how much fun you'll have with your friends. Hope this helped!
2007-05-26 03:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should jsut go and have a good time ignore the girl if she says anything or does anything to u during the movie just dont do or say anything back and i say pirates of the caribbean 3 last night it wasnt as good as the first 2
2007-05-26 02:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good to hear that u dont let enemies make your decisions.
now. do you know what the rumors are? cuz that mighthave helped.
anyway
i dont think she will but if she plays tricks on you or anything like that and you have a proof that she did it then go to her and sort the problem out by words. and dont forget to keep your cool. if she insults you face to face then ask her 4 the truth. like "why are you doing this to me" "why r u so jelous of me" or "dont you have anything better to do or is it that im the best thing that happened to u".
2007-05-26 03:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ewnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go there and when you see her just put on a face like she or none of her freinds phase you at all!!! I mean really ho is she anyway? What makes her any better or tougher than you ?? Only you can make her feel like that towards you so dont let her. Times like these just bring out your wit and sarcasim it works everytime cause usually girls like these dont have half a brain thats why they do the things they do.
2007-05-26 03:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely ignore her, even if she shouts at you from across the room. People like that aren't worth lowering yourself for. Just make sure you don't sit near her in the movie theatre and you'll be fine. Once she realises she can't stop you having a great time with your friends she'll back off.
2007-05-26 02:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Spazzcat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opionion, you have 2 choices. 1. Take this girl aside and ask her what happened - why she is upset with you -- From the sounds of it, this girl is just 'one of those girls' and this may not work...
so 2. Go and have a great time! Show her that just because she is there, it isn't going to ruin your day. This way she'll realize that her trying to gang up on you isn't working. She is probably trying to cut you down out of jealousy or trying to divert attention from her onto you. Never let her get you down!
2007-05-26 03:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋