people who have morals sometimes dont practice it, so please answer as truthfully as you can, would you advise your wife or girlfriend to abort the baby?
2007-05-26 01:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by nuttynellie 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I have two views for this question, can't decide which makes more sense. (After all sometimes I never know how I will react until I actually face that situation.)
View One: The woman never asked to be raped, the seed from the rapist is in violation of the dignity of humanity and should be removed accordingly to set things correct. The rapist never gave his seed a promising place to grow (she never gave a promose of love to let it grow) one would assume he placed his seed in a place that was unpromising since no love was involved, it is just as if you place a seed in the ground during a drought, it should not be allowed to thrive.
In a religious sense, God forbid Moses to enter the Promised Land, what if Moses entered anyway, should God allow him to stay or strike him down dead? In a simular fashion she never promised her "promised land" to begin with to the rapist.
The only man she promised/trusted by love that to was her boyfriend or husband, so in a way the rapist violated into what was entrusted by love to only her boyfriend or husband. So the boyfriend has a right by love to speak his mind on the issue of abortion. If she neglects this right that she has bestowed upon him by her heart, then she has shown she doesn't love him. But the ultimate decision by man's law would be hers alone. But she would have to deal with the consequences of going against her lovers advice.
View Two: Is it the child's fault his or her father was a rapist?
My opinion would be to have the child but give the baby up for adoption if you have no emotional attachment. This way you don't commit murder, so you don't go from being a victim to being a perpetrator.
Or you could raise the child and just tell the child when the child gets older that he or she were adopted.
In the end, statistically speaking I am not sure men love other men’s children as much as their own, especially if the father raped his wife or girlfriend... he would have to be extremely open minded.
2007-05-26 02:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tbh I'm going through something like this with my fiance. I flipped and it made me go insane. Tbh everything was good until it happen. I was against abortion but in this case I'd advise. I let her choose though but on the inside I was hoping she abort it. It's a tuff thing, it'll always remind you of the rapist, it's not your child and if she keeps it another man's child has entered her life that's tuff. It's hers and she will have a relationship with the child cause its hers not yours and is like being a third wheel in a way. I love my fiance a lot and never thought about abortion but in a case like this you would change your mind or think things differently so wouldn't expect anyone to think the same unless you been in their shoes. Had she had kept it that might have been a hard time to continue. Love her and don't resent her since it's not her fault but it is a strong pain you could never get over.
2015-10-10 18:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tyneal Edwards 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully - I'm going to feel like a sh!t saying this but I would want her to abort the baby. I'd probably be very assertive on this issue as rape is one of the things I think abortion should be allowed for. So yes, I would tell her that I would really, really want her to abort.
But in the end it would be her choice, I wouldn't force her to do it. If she did keep the child I would probably seriously have to assess the relationship.
2007-05-26 02:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 3⤋
Yes I would advise that an abortion be performed. Raising the baby would be a constant reminder of a bad and traumatic thing that happened.
2007-05-26 02:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by krupsk 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
How can the boyfriend or husband abort the baby?
Isn't that a doctor's job and isn't that the choice of the woman who is carrying that child?
RN
2007-05-26 01:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by gawd0 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Truthfully, Yes i would advise her to abort the baby... but i wouldnt force it upon her, in the end it woule be her decision. As bad as it may sound thats how i truthfully feel.
2007-05-26 01:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
first thing -- I will take care that my wife/girlfriend will not be raped -- but in case she is I will not like it -- but I will accept the baby if she becomes pregnant -- just consider the baby as your own -- will not my wife be hurt (mentally) by an abortion? -- well I think I can talk with her and make us think that it is our baby -- and -- take care that she will not take advantage of the situation.
2007-05-26 01:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I feel like why should she have to keep this in her AND keep remindin her of this monster, woman abuser poor excuse of a man. and why do people keep sayin its a womans choice don't i have to live with the situation to. That sperm wasn't put there DURING LOVE MAKIN OR BY SOMEONE YOU EVEN KNEW ABORT AND PRAY TO GOD HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND IF NOT HE SHOULDN'T OF PUT RAPIST AND STUPID CRIMINALS ON EARTH" FEEL ME"
2007-05-26 02:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by the answer 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No I would keep the baby
2007-05-26 02:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Exedius M 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No, I am against all abortion. She should have baby and give baby up for adoption. Just because man know how to do something that doesn't make it right. A big dog can kill dog smaller than him anytime he wants, but does he? No, becasue he has a sense for right and wrong. A cat can lash out and scratch you up and run away if she wants, but doens't do it because its a sensless act and is a wrong thing to do.
2007-05-26 01:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by dannywahlberg 1 · 4⤊ 8⤋