I agree with Solo. Unless it is causing problems in your everyday life,such as havingto do it in public or at the dinner table,there is nothing wrong with it. Masturbation is a normal,healthy part of life. As Solo said,it releases tension. It is also good for headaches. When you orgasm,your brain releases endorphines,which is a body';s own natural "feel good" drug. These endorphines can actually help relieve a headache. If you are worried about de-sensitization - that if you continue to masturbate you will not be able to enjoy sex with someone else, don't worry. This is a myth. Have fun and play safe.
2007-05-26 05:08:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Why do u want to? Crazy to think, I used to be the same way that u are right now when I was younger....I discovered Masturbation at a veryyyyyyy young age...And to me then, I didn't know it was something bad that shouldn't be done in public!!! My parents caught me a few times, and scolded me pretty bad for it....But, the thing is,they never explained to me why was it soo wrong for me to be doing what I was doing, wrong in the aspect that something like that shouldn't be done in, let's say, the living room and such....lol!!!! All I knew is that what I was doing, felt GREAT, but why was it sooo wrong in their eyes? I often asked myself.......I couldn't comprehend why it was soooo bad for me to make myself feel good, and like I said, they never cared to explain that to me.....All I know is that what I was doing, would piss them off.....I got to the point where I told myself I had to stop "touching myself" at the age of 13 or so.....It worked for maybe 5 months, and I went back to it.....I got the to the point where I was beginning to believe that what I was doing was a sin, and something that God would condemn me for.....But as I got older, I realized that was I was doing was the most safest thing, compared to having sex with someone.........And let me tell u....No matter how bad you promise urself, that u are not going to masturbate, it may work for a while, but, ultimately, u will probably go back to it.....And there is nothingggg wrong with it!!! Look! I am married, and I still masturbate! lol! But, due to my Hubby being gone on deployments and such.....Masturbating is the best thing I can do for myself, instead of going out and cheating on my Hubby, like many other wives do........I have no need for me to cheat on my Hubby, and if I am feeling like I want some relief, then I grant my wish myself!!!! Girl, masturbation is not bad.....Nothing wrong with loving urself! But if u trulyyyyyy want to stop, then next time u feel like u wanna finger urself, or whatever it is u do, just shift ur attention to something non-sexual.....Go watch some TV, go out for a walk, take a nap, anything!!!! And maybe that will help.....Good luck!
2007-06-03 03:49:18
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answered by Anonymous
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well maybe you overdo it all the day? It is a matter of control over the mind. Just diminish make an appointment with yourself about the hours you allow yourself and the hours you forbid yourself to masturbate. Then a week later two hours nothing and one hour yes. And so on. Try to be with others as much as possible.
2007-05-31 12:50:59
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answered by dick v 2
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Why? If its not affecting you in any way and not hurting anyone else there is no reason to stop. It releases tension and feels good, enough reason to keep rubbin' that nubbin'.
2007-05-26 08:32:19
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answered by Solo 6
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"And he said, the things which are impossible with men are possible with God" (Luke 18:27).
Pray my sister and He shall deliver you. Go to His Church (the Catholic Church) and He will set you free!
For freedom Christ has set us free; stand fast therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5:1-5
He will set you free from sin
2007-05-28 02:56:36
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answered by Andrew S 2
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why whats wrong with it as long as your doing it on the bus
2007-05-31 20:37:42
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answered by jenlaceypink 1
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why u want to stop?
2007-06-02 19:17:36
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answered by Anonymous
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get a boyfriend
2007-06-02 16:52:58
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answered by shadow 3
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Don't stop, it is ok!
2007-05-30 08:40:02
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answered by Smiley 4
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go go go..have fun!
2007-05-30 15:58:07
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answered by RD119 3
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