I have a bf (boy friend) his name is Jory, he is really nice... Online, he's really shy at school and on the phone. But online he's really open and stuff. m kay, my friend Nate also likes me... and I think I like him. I can tell him anything.... I think I can tell Jory everything but I am afraid he will just ignore me and do the... ahhh okay. thing.
Who do I choose? and how do I break up/ask out w/ someone?
2007-05-25 23:34:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
guys at that age need alot of help b'cuz girls do mature faster then guys. OK if you want to break up with you current bf you just tell him this "i think you are a great guy but we are very young and i would like to explore my options, i still like you but i think it would be best if we took a break from each other and see other people." and if you want to get with Nate just be honest to him and say "i broke up with my bf so i can see if me and you have some kind of connection and i think we should give it a shot and go out." i hope this works for you. GOOD LUCK.
2007-05-25 23:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by jacquie925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are twelve and should be enjoying life, playing sports, going out with groups of friends not worrying about boyfriends.
Believe me there is plenty of time for that later in life. I know that it all seems so important now but realize that you may live to be 80 or older so this is only the first 1/8 or 1/9 of your life.
Be friends with both of them. Confide in your girlfriends. Live life to the fullest and enjoy your freedom as it will only be a short time before you are having to deal with the realities of life, a job, a mortgage, bills, marriage and children.
2007-05-26 07:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try opening up to Jory for once? he might just be waiting for a stimuli. If he remains passive, that's the time you make your move.
2007-05-26 06:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by tetet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At twelve you need more than one friend. You should not get too serious with anyone at your age because you have a long way to go before you even think of settling on one guy.
2007-05-26 06:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you're too young to have a gf/bf relationship. Like both of them but do things in groups like choir or girl/boy sport events or go to a movie as a group. You still need to wait a couple years to have a date.
2007-05-26 06:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was in around the same pickle but i was chosen between girls not guys it took me a week to decide and i chose but i dont think i would be happy with any of the choses because i like all 3 of them so im sticking with what i got until something happens (if something happens) and then ill try someone else
2007-05-26 06:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by Checkers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. You're only 12 years old. If i were you, I'd enjoy my childhood a bit more. Just try to be friends with the both of them.
2007-05-26 06:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl1478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to be in a relationship. Try to be friends with both of them. You have plenty of time to meet and be with me. Choose the one you have feelings for, the one who loves you back.
2007-05-26 06:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be with whoever makes you feel the most comfortable. Breaking up is hard but you have to be honest with him. Good Luck!
2007-05-26 06:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by sweetcandicane20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your age, I would suggest just enjoy your friendship. dont get into the relationship phase. You are too young for that.
Enjoy this phase as it may never return.
2007-05-26 06:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋