2007-05-25 18:58:48 · 35 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Depends why you have a bad rep.
Because of a bad attitude....change your attitude.
Because of how you dress....change your dress only if it is not decent, not because people just don't like it.
2007-06-02 12:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever made your bad rep, do the opposite,except if you have a bad rep for not doing drugs.
ex)if you have a rep for being rude to people, start giving compliments on anything that makes sense, like,"that's a nice shirt"or if your working on a project with someone"wow, i would of never thought of that" if they think of a cool idea
ex)If you have a bad rep because you don't do drugs, stand your ground and find someone who has the same value
2007-05-26 01:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by ispwyf00 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 13 too. If you have a bad rep for some reason think about why it ended up that way. And kinda reverse it, I don't know.
2007-06-01 13:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by katrina! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have a bad rep, figure out what is causing it. If one of your friends is mad a t you baout something, he/she may be spreding rumors. Clean off your slate by apologizing to everyone you've hurt and put yourself out to meet new people. If that doesn't work, well. Then something is defenitly. Also, if you are feeling in the dumps at any time, just go to your school councler. They will listen and give advise through everything. They picked that as their job because they care about what kids have to say.
2007-05-25 19:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by helperwhoneedshelp 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop doing whatever gave you the bad rep.
2007-06-02 16:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. Don't change to please people or to "fit in". Don't let people disrespect you and use you (especially guys). AND Never give in to a guy just so he'll like you.
Be nice to everyone, avoid gossip, learn to apologize gracefully. Treat people with respect. Don't talk about yourself too much and don't kiss and tell, avoid dishing out your own secrets. Be caring towards people.
Don't let what other people think about you bring you down. Try to live your life being true to what you believe in and not living to please everyone else.
A bad rep is what people "perceive" of you. IIt doesn't necessarily mean you are that "reputation". If you want to change it, smile, be friendly, and don't be easy with the guys. And if all of the "bad rep" talk is all lies.... prove them wrong, be honest and tell them your real truth.
Good luck hun!1
2007-05-25 19:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa C 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Start to get rid of bad Friends, make better ones with better reps. (not saying they have to be saints) And really try not to do anything that will make your rep worse. also, appearance and personality say a lot.
2007-05-25 19:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by vergodusk 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it all depends on what you did to get your bad rep. Some things can be easily fixed, while others leave a lasting mark on your character. Think about what you have done to get to this point and try to do something to repair it. Good luck.
2007-05-25 19:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to get rid of a bad rep is try to undo whatever you were doing. Try being nicer to people or just be your self and it will work its way out.
2007-05-25 19:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by littlebitty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you ever try to ask this question someone who know you better?like your best friend or your mother?they know you more than we do,and then can say what you do wrong and what you do best.i think you should trust their feelings mos.and your,of course.and one more thing:congratulations!you made the most important step-you admited and you asked for help!it means,even if you are only 13,you are mature.and you have lot of time to create your own personality.but you must search it deep down inside of you.good luck!
2007-06-02 06:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by albinutza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok w/e u did to have a bad rep then don't do it again and move on
2007-06-01 09:05:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋