today me and my grandma got into an argument. eventualy it turned in to a shouting match. and i screamed at her and called her the C word. it was pretty bad. she just stood there and turned pale and vomited because of what she just heard. she is 80 years old and i feel bad
2007-05-25 18:46:24 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
wow... can't believe you called your grandma that.... hope you apologized...... sorry if i was your grandma ... at 80 yrs old.. i would have kicked your @ss....!!
2007-05-25 18:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG you really did make a BIG BIG mistake. You should feel bad. You need to go to her, and apologize profusely. Tell her you wouldn't blame her is she never forgave you because it really is unforgivable. but ask for it anyway. Hey GET down on your knees and beg if you have to! Tell her there was absolutely no excuse for your behavior, and you know that apologizing doesn't make what you said go away and that you know you really hurt her, and for that you are very very sorry. good luck guy and I hope that for both of your sakes you can mend this relationship. And I hope you learned something here. If you are so angry you cannot control what you say it is best to just walk away till you can get yourself under control.
2007-05-25 18:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to apologize, the sooner the better, what ever the fight was about it's not worth it. Let her know you love her and feel horrible about what you said and it will never happen again and mean it. Bring her something like flowers or a plant. Give her a big hug and a kiss. Good luck.
2007-05-25 18:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you call your grandma something like that! That is really mean and harsh, just because anger gets in the way of things we shouldn't let it take over! Learn how to control your tounge!!! Cruel words can be so painful, and no matter how much you say I am sorry you can never take them back! Go apologize to her, you ought to be ashamed of yourself.
2007-05-25 18:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, she;s 80? and how old are you? apologize to her make her feel loved. let her know that you felt bad on what you did. I think she really really felt bad on what you did. Just be more patient with her. Just think of it this way.Put your feet into her shoes, would you like your future grandchildren do the same thing to you? Life has a funny way of teaching us a lesson.
2007-05-25 18:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, sometimes our emotions get the best of us...it happens to everyone!!! (Including everyone who is condemning you here) It does happen.
You obviously feel really bad about what happened.
I lost my grandmother a year ago. I will not preach to you, that is the last thing you need...so imagine what I would say, if I had just one more moment with her.
I think you will make the right decision based on that.
2007-05-25 19:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go talk to her, and apologize, tell her how it was just a heat of the moment thing and you are sincerely sorry and never meant to hurt her and ask for her forgivness, and PROMISE her that you would never say anything like that to her again. Next time she starts to get mad at you for something, I found it's best just to stay quiet and let her talk or rant, I know it's hard, but just try to do that next time. Don't be to hard on yourself, everyone has their moments.
2007-05-25 18:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by USMCwifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel bad, you love her and it shows that you do love her by feeling bad. Let her know what she means to you, write a letter of appology and then let her know how much you really do love her by remembering your favorite moments with her. Tell her you said that because your friends always say it to each other and they don't mean anything by it, that you have picked up on it..
Good Luck
2007-05-25 19:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by bobcatlady2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to apologise. Its not my place but that was a horrible thing. Firstly, why are you shouting at your 80yr old grandma? And secondly, why would you ever think of calling ANYBODY the c-word?
Apologise....
2007-05-25 18:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by MonkeyMama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that and your right it was a big mistake. How you recitfy that, how exactly I don't know. I'm not tn the advice business. I'm not one to dispense so called timely advice but I do wish you the best of luck in mending you grandmothers broken heart.
2007-05-25 18:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bru 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel worse than bad. I can't believe you said that to any woman, but to your grandmother is beyond stupidity.
First you convince yourself to never use that word again. Then go to her and apologize and tell her you promise to never repeat that word again.
Maybe bring her some flowers too.
2007-05-25 18:57:48 · answer #11 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋