ok i know for a fact that im bisexual (well atleast i thought i was) then i only liked guys. then once again i was positive that i liked both guys and girls. i started thinking about it and i thought "well maybe im actually a lesbian" but every time i thought that i started to remember how much i "loved" by ex bf. now im back to thinking im bisexual. my question is.....is it normal for a 13 year old girl to feel this way??
(i've been having these "feelings" since i was like 11)
2007-05-25 16:42:30 · 9 answers · asked by cdr dsw = <3 [11/1/10] 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
13 is about the right time to start questioning. You need to just kinda chill and stop thinking about it so much. At some point your going to figure it out on your own, just by your own feelings. But if you're unsure then don't really tell anyone that you're bi/lesbian or anything. Because if this all turns out to be a phase then your at a loss. I don't know why but a lot of people look down on bi people and just say that they can't pick, which really isn't the case at all.
2007-05-25 17:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by laura20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. Most people go through a phase of questioning their sexuality in their early teens, though for some this doesn't occur until later. In any case, over time it will sort itself out. Many people have some clue at an early age, but it's somewhat fluid until adulthood.
2007-05-25 21:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Merrik N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 22:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the time you are old enough to have sex these things should sort themselves out. Sounds like you are straight but want to be "different". Give yourself time and by the time you mature you will know.
2007-05-25 16:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at 13 it is normal to be unsure of your sexuality.
2007-05-25 16:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. Take your time and don't pressure yourself to decide now. It happened the same way for me.
2007-05-25 18:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its normal. Its just your hormones messing with you. You'll figure it out when you get a little older.
2007-05-25 17:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Kara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to worry about what you want to designate as your sexual orientation. just go with the flow. be with who you are attracted to when you are attracted to them and you will soon find out exactly what you want in life.
2007-05-25 16:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by jusme 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
honestly .. dont listen to the person .. im 13 and i dont know exactly wat u mean but i do know.. going with the flow in jr. high works ..its rather ur all in or out..
some ppl hid witch it makes it harder for ppl but
coming out saying ur bi is easiest when you get to high school.. i would belive but idk im not in high school yet and im straight..
2007-05-25 16:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by cheergal4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋