Ok, i have a friend and she is really in love with this guy, the problem is that she isn't the greatest girl in school and he is real popular he is a complete asshole because he is just trying to make her feel excited bu he actually doesn't feel nothing for her!! i've talked to her and she thinks that i'm just trying to be mean!! How could i make her understand he doesn't like her??
2007-05-25 16:05:28 · 7 answers · asked by Baby4life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You've tried to talk to her and told her how you feel....now step back. She's not going to listen to you and only get mad at you for pointing out the truth.
She may not want to face the truth because she's in fantasy land right now.
Stand back and keep your mouth shut...as hard as it may be....she's got to figure it out herself...and when she does she'll need you to be there.
2007-05-25 16:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is trying to just "excite" your friend, then there has to be a reason for this. Perhaps, he really does like her?
Now, if I were this girl and you were my friend, I would want to know the truth. However, it is in how you present this to your friend!! Especially, if she is taking this guys actions seriously. Consider that she may get a little put out with you but, time will show, if you are correct, that you tried to warn her and keep her from getting hurt or, used!!
2007-05-25 23:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time. After a while she will realize that he really is an asshole and believe you. But for now, just leave her alone for a while, the game will get old to the guy too. She will get it sooner or later.
2007-05-25 23:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by настюха---- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must be some real kid. tell her she should know better then to assume ur just being mean. i say if she doesnt believe u, let her keep liking him and at the end she will realize that you were right.
2007-05-25 23:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by M.O.B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to let her find out for herself. If you are her friend, do not say I told you so when she gets hurt. Just be there for her.
2007-05-25 23:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her find out the hard way.
2007-05-25 23:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by jettabrat8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet your friend in a quiet place and talk about how she thinks he feels about her..
like ask her " Hey (your friends name) how do you think (his name) feels about you?
Than see wat she has to say...
hope i helped!!
2007-05-25 23:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋