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I don't think I can take much more. My closest relative passed away, then my husband left me, I have our 2 kids, plus his 2 kids from his 1st marriage. My cars engine blew a piston. I got a pre-eviction notice from my landlord because when my husband left almost 9 mos ago we were behind on bills. And I can't seem to catch up on my own. I lost my job today. I am on anti-depressant pills already. I just want to lie down and go to sleep and never wake up. I can't do this anymore. Will the kids be better off with someone who has a job, isn't on meds to function or with me- a loser that just lost her job, and crys all the time. 2 of the kids are already doing badly in school because of all the changes. How can I stand here & ruin everyones life just because I want my babies with me. How selfish. I don't know really know why I can't become unselfish and just end it. I want to give up. I can't hurt anymore. I can't be a supportive parent when I can't get my own **** together!

2007-05-25 14:12:53 · 10 answers · asked by mom_of_2 4 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

I do understand health issues. Mine isn't the best either. I just had a cancerous tumer taken out of my uterus in Feb. & may not be all done with that yet; and 1 month ago I tore 2 ligaments and chipped a bone in my ankle, which will take 8 to 12 months to heal and still may require surgery. I suffer from intense migraines, and have allergies as well as asthma. While I'm sorry you have illnesses you really should not assume that others don't. I have tried praying. I don't think God has a plan for me other than to show my children what not to do.

2007-05-25 14:32:19 · update #1

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First of all right now drop to your knees and pray. If you don't know how, just close your eyes and tell god everything. Tell him you need help and that you can't do this all by yourself. Then go to the closest church and ask for help.

2007-05-25 16:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There are plenty of companys out there that will help you with your bills. I don't know any names but i remember seeing commercials for them.

Does your husband pay child support?
Did the relative leave any inheritance?
Ask your husband to take the kids for the weekend?
Take the bus?
Talk to your landlord and explain to him the situation. Everyone has a heart and you don't have alot to lose. He will either be sympathetic or he will just have you evicted for not paying. Try smoking weed it relaxes you and really lets you reflect on everything. As for your kids, do NOT let them see you stressed. a childhood is very precious and delicate. make it seem as if everything is alright.. be positive and their grades and whats going on inside of them will be one less thing to worry about. Look for a new job. Monster.com, craigslist.com ... GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!

2007-05-25 14:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The most selfish thing you could do is take your own life! That is a permanent solution for temporary problems. You need God in your life. He is the answer you are looking for. Go find out about Him. You won't have to deal with life all by yourself anymore.

2007-05-25 14:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0 0

Dying might be a solution, but it may not be the best one. Put it on the back burner as an emergency exit, while you look at alternatives.

Here in the UK there are organisation to help people in your situation, and I'd suggest calling the Samaritans first to discuss it with them. If you're not here, though, I don't know what local equivalents might be. Bet they exist, though.

CD

2007-05-25 14:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0 0

Darling never give up because God has something great for you. It may not be just when you think it should come, but it comes in his time and at the right time. I've been in your shoes and I know. The best lessons I learned in life is when I was at my lowest. When you are at the bottom of the barrel, God is the barrel holding you up. I'll be praying for you and I guarantee he's with you every step of the way. Never give up!!!!!!!!

2007-05-25 14:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Pearl 6 · 0 1

Light and love to you. When all things in your life are chaos, be prepared to move up a level. This will be a very positive and amazing thing - you will see. Do not give up. The best is yet to come.

2007-05-25 14:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

All this will seem like nothing when your health starts to nose dive. I would trade places with you anytime and enjoy not being ill. Count your blessings and get on with your life.

2007-05-25 14:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i know how you feel. believe me. but separating from your children would be selfish, they need you and they would be devasted if you left them. you may want to apply for goverment aid to help you back on your feet. sometimes we all need a little help. make sure you have someone close to you that you can talk to and that will support you emotionally through these hard times. and you are NOT a loser !

2007-05-25 14:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Delete System32 5 · 2 0

I'm sorry.

2007-05-25 14:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sweetpea you need someone to talk to
email me at wannabeflowerprincess@yahoo.com

2007-05-25 14:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by cathryn r 2 · 0 0

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