adoption or abortion?

Adoption - there are many married men and women out there that would love to have children, but are unable to...

2007-05-25 14:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Pn8yDr3aMr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Adoption

2007-05-25 14:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by SimplyMe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Adoption.

2007-05-25 15:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by swell1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Open Adoption

2007-05-25 14:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Adoption. I have personal experience in this area. I got pregnant at 17 with twins. When I first found out, my bf at the time was pressuring me to have an abortion, since that's what his parent's were pressuring HIM to do. I just couldn't fathom doing that. Two wrongs don't make a right. They didn't ask to be created, but because we were irresponsible, they were. We then looked into adoption and chose New Hope Adoption agency, which is a Christian adoption agency. We got to choose either an open or closed adoption, and once we chose the family, we got to meet with them many times to make sure they were a great family. We were very happy with them. Yes, the pregnacy was difficult, but I was happy to know that one, they were going to a good home, and two, that I wouldn't have to live the rest of my life knowing I had ended the lives of two innocent babies. In case you were unsure, once the egg meets the sperm, and fertilization has occured, they are given a soul and a spirit by God. He created that little one. Please allow your unborn to live. Even if you don't raise him or her, you will never regret allowing someone else who couldn't have a child normally, to have the joy of parenthood. I now have 3 boys and I'm going to deliver my 4th any day now. Children are such a blessing! I hope this helps. I will be praying for you and this very difficult decision of yours!

2007-05-25 14:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by tbird76 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Adoption... much easier to make peace with your conscience on this. I know someone almost 40 who had a teen abortion, and she still has unresolved issues. You'll never forget this.

With adoption, you can feel glad that you helped a couple have a family and gave your child the opportunity for a good life.

2007-05-25 14:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

I used to be pro choice...I am no longer pro choice because I have researched the procedures they use to terminate the baby, and I am a proud mom. I don't think anyone would choose abortion if they have ever experienced the joy of pregnancy. It is very scary to be pregnant (married or not) and there are so many questions and emotions that are swirling around in your head. Once you hear the heart beat and see the ultrasounds, no matter if you keep it or put it up for adoption, you will be in love...choose life....choose God and the love he has for you and your child. God planned the baby. God still has plans for you and the baby. I say take a prayer brake and listen to what God has to say. He will never fail and never disappoint you. I know people who chose abortion and they regret it and think about it every day of their lives.

2007-05-25 14:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

Anita- you don't allow email or IM so this is the only way I can reach you. Sorry.

I'm not sure you have been given accurate information about adoption. The "system" is flawed- but when people say that, they are usually talking about the foster care system. Newborns almost NEVER go into foster care. Expectant women can choose their baby's adoptive parents before birth. They can meet them in person, interview, arrange for visits after the birth, and ensure that their child is being raised in a good environment. As the birthmom, you have the right to place your child in the family of your choice. You can choose based on religion, income, personal impression- whatever is important to you!

Check out this website to see what I'm talking about-
http://www.parentprofiles.com/parents/considering/

2007-05-25 14:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Adoption. Abortion is something you would have to live with the rest of you like knowing that you gave away someone else's life. It's not worth it.

2007-05-25 14:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by breisingermela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Adoption because there is always some loving family out there looking to adopt who can not have kids.

2007-05-25 14:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by Traci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

I would say.. Adoption. It's much more humane, and there are plenty of would-be- good parents out there who just can't have kids.

It's really your decision. I'm here to provide an opinion and recources. Email me or message me please at any time. I will try to support you. :)

Here are some websites to look at. Remember that this is a big desicion and take your time. Best of luck, may God be with you.

http://www.abortionfacts.com/adoption/adoption.asp

http://www.americanadoptions.com/pregnant/adoption_abortion_parenting

http://www.adoption.org/adopt/adoption-abortion.php

http://www.gargaro.com/adoption.html

http://www.abortionfacts.com/literature/literature_9338aa.asp

2007-05-25 14:05:00 · answer #11 · answered by dia9301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

adoption or abortion?

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