How about you?
2007-05-25 13:23:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
But who else am I going to complain to? I <3 you YA... and you probably know who i am and am stalking me just to make me feel bad. you're all just a bunch of narcs.
2007-05-25 13:33:37 · update #1
No need to beat yourself up, everyone has redeeming values. I'm a lazy beer drinking bastard at times
2007-05-25 13:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by six_foot_2_midget 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was an ugly depressed b*tch a couple months ago, who sat around on this board writing and giving advice that I couldn't even give myself.
Now I have a job that I really like and I don't have time to be depressed any longer. Now I'm just a tired, pretty (I'm keeping myself up now wearing nice clothes) b*tch. Yes, I'm still a b*tch!
2007-05-25 20:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And paranoid. I don't consider being depressed to take value from someone as a person, but that's just me. Plus, I presume that's a self-diagnosis. Do you even think you actually are depressed? And even if you do you might not be. And me? Well, I'm not depressed or a *****...ugly though, probably.
2007-05-25 20:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by redundantredundancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably depressed, because you think your ugly and a b***h. Hey, don't call yourself names at least not bad ones. How about I am a super nice woman who's a little blue right now, but that wont last long. Good luck love.
2007-05-25 20:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by mrs.tiggywinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, dont ever let anyone tell you your ugly! my uncle gave me some advice and it got me out of my depression that word is "self Preservation" and it means
Self-Preservation means to preserve what you have...it could be
your psyche--don't absorb anyone's negative opinion of you or embrace someone's rejection as anything other than sad or disappointing.
your mind--don't accept blame for something that's another person's choices, when you don't have any ability to change the outcome
your emotions--make your feelings at least as important as his...to not do so--to not put yourself first--can be an indicator of codependency...if you're uncle is giving you this kind of advice, he is giving you credit for having maturity and wisdom, and consider yourself fortunate for having a relative who wants God's highest good for you...
your self--don't give up you in order to be loved by someone else
your values--if you value sexual integrity, don't allow someone to talk you into something that will turn you into a person your best friend wouldn't want you to turn into...Run Like Hell if need be...the human body was fashioned to respond sexually to specific stimulation, so don't expect it to be easy if you're in his bedroom admiring his etchings...
hang onto hope! Good luck and i hope you life gets better!
2007-05-25 21:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by ThatoneGirl90 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering you assume that everyone is stalking you I'm very inclined to concur with your sentiments!!
However, I feel the need to say that without conclusive proof I cannot find you guilty of being ugly. Whiny definitely, but you may MAY be stunning beyond words and thought
2007-05-25 20:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by James J Turner esq 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes we don't like the choices we make in life, but as we made those choices today, tomorrow we can choose something else. Maybe the sun will come out tomorrow, bet your bottom dollar...
2007-05-25 20:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree. u r only as ugly as au think u r. i used to think that all the time. i was furious when guys would date my friend cause she was "pretty when i wasnt." but u no what? i started gaining confidence in myself. now im settled with the man of my life. i forget sometimes so he has to remind me that im beautiful. but u shouldnt look down on ureself for what other people think. it really is what matters in ur heart
2007-05-27 00:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by texas_tec_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ain't no ugly depressed b*tch. I'm good-looking, happy, and a male human being, not a female dog.
2007-05-25 20:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by James E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How nice. Now shut up and get back to finding a new way to make your self miserable. There are unlimited opportunities and options for that.
2007-05-25 20:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mike H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋