Me and this girl stopped talking to each other at work (for no good reason). Now, it seems I get the cold shoulder from everyone at work. I feel like an outcast and uncomfortable. Everyone treats me like I'm not even there. It's like she cursed me (which btw she dabbles in witchcraft). So uncomfortable and weird. Is there anything I can do?
2007-05-25 08:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Yes, be the first one to talk, by asking someone, "How it's goinin". Be casual and see what happens. Maybe you are overstating in your head.
2007-05-25 08:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by jerry_seinfeldfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let me try and help you with this here. Firstly, as a practicing Witch I can tell you it's most likely she has been gossiping, and if she was the one who stopped speaking first perhaps she took offence at something you said and mistook the meaning.
Secondly any good witch doesn't just "dabble" and we do not dabble in the dark arts - there is the rule of three times three. If indeed she's sending nasty things your way it will come back upon her (and rightly so) three times as strongly as she sent it out.
Now, regardless of if she did or didn't, it's not nice for you to be feeling this way so what I'd like you to do is every day take a minute before you leave for work and visualize yourself being enclosed in a very bright white bubble of light - whatever your beliefs are ask your higher power to bless and protect you for that day and into the night. go forward with confidence and if you feel anything negative coming from her while at work immediatly visualise a mirror in front of you, anything negative will hit it and bounce off.
This can take some practice especially if you are not used to doing these things. If it continues and you still don't feel you are dealing with it, please email me.
2007-05-25 15:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That kind of conflictual situation is typical of the Aries, Virgo and Scorpio signs.
The three "social" signs indeed can do alot of sudden reversals and damage in early frienships. Even in advanced frienships, they can break the ties as soon as they find better looking and long-term opportunities.
In such cases, the Scorpio/Virgo/Aries will not go away without taking something for him/herself. One of their typical strategies is then to use a more or less subtlely provocated accident or misunderstanding, in order to put accusations on a victim and to seek counterparts' approval.
That certainly sounds sad, but it may simply be how these individuals are made, and no demonstration of love can change that --- they will feel alienated if they just don't act like their inner self tell them to.
You mentioned witchcraft in your question so I guess that lady's sign would be virgo. Another hint in that sense is this: you seem attracted to her. Virgo women own definitely more charm than Aries women. As of the scorpio sign, it's only unprobable that you find it at work!
What I suggest you to do from here, is either to avoid being involved with these individuals' lives, or to continue your work and remain positive so that, sooner or later, your actions will override anything that has been invented against you. Social standing comes from actions and remembering of these actions, but It does not stand for long on words that could have been said against you.
2007-05-26 02:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Roy Nicolas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that same situation for the past month. Everyone just stopped talkin to me. I figured it had to do with my friend. it's high school, i need to survive since i am a freshmen (NOT NO MORE!!!). I appoligized, then everything seem to come back together. people call me, invite me out. I would just say sorry. I prayed for things to get better. And well it did! Hope it'll work for you.
2007-05-25 16:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by muse vero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋