So i getting sick of men how does one become a lesbian?

Question

Ive never wanted to be with a woman but im sick of being with men and i just need a change. Can i just wake up one day and say i wanna become a lesbian? Is that possible? They always look so happy...

even after a bottle of patron

Answer 1

I wish it was possible. I am sick of the way that guys treat me. Too bad that you can't change your sexuality. I do wonder however that if I ever get with a woman, will that help change my sexuality......Hmmmm.

Answer 2

You don't become one...you either are or you're not. How about not being with anyone for a change. I think one of the reasons always have such awful relationship experiences is because they're never alone long enough to really find out who they themselves are and what they want.

It's not the partner that makes you happy, it's you and until you're happy with yourself, you're going to attract other people who aren't happy with themselves and the cycle will continue.

Once you get to a place where you're truly happy by yourself, I think you'll be able to find the kind of relationship you want as well as the independence and confidence to get out of one that isn't what you'd hoped and move on.

Answer 3

You are the girl that homosexuals say don't exist. How could you just roll out of bed and decide to be gay? Maybe you need to sit back and let a good man come to you. Any relationship has problems whether it's gay or straight. I'm sorry but you can't really be this dumb, can you?

Answer 4

There's a South Park episode dedicated to that very idea.

Truly, just be what you want to be; you don't need to label yourself. If you think being with girls will make you happier, then start hanging out at the local lesbian bars or dance clubs, and see what happens.

Answer 5

I didn't know it was something someone did, as much as it is just who they are as a person. It's not some club you join by paying yearly dues.

I can't imagine someone wakes up one day and says,"hmmm, I think I'll become a lesbian right after I change the color of my eyes."

Someone either is, or is not. It's either who/what you are, or not.

Answer 6

Well, as a matter of fact most lesbians I know are not happy persons. Actualy they are quite sad.

I'm an hetero, but I believe that the sexual orientation borns with us, so I don't think you'll become a TRUE lesbian (the most you can turn is bissexual).

But sometimes I feel a lesian too, since I like woman a lot. ;)

Answer 7

It's someting you're born with. If you're attracted to women, you're a lesbian, whether you're out or not.

So, there's no way for you to be a lesbian unless you get another life. But don't worry, you'll find the right guy.

Answer 8

Well. I am happy, and I am gay.
I didn't just wake up and think "oh I'm sick of men". I love men! I think they are just fantastic creatures! I just don't want to sleep with them..but..when I need a jar opened.....they are very, very helpful.

Answer 9

hey its not easier to be with women believe me its the same as if you were with a guy except you know that if your with a guy its a guy and ect. but women lie cheat still and break your heart and sometimes teas you just lik eguys do so..and no you cnat become a lesbian...srry but just so you knwo tis not gonna be easier if you were..good luck

Answer 10

You have to drink a mixture of tabasco, apple martini mix, vodka and a drop of honey with a pinch of black pepper. Once doing that you go in front of the lesbian counsel for approval and once you get your red badge with a big "L"...off you go to be a lesbian.