Am I shallow and thinking I am good, and he doesnt appreciate me?
2007-05-25 04:09:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is not into lingerie, and really sex for that matter...that is just him, and have learnt to live with that....(sort of). He is super close to his mother, and I really honestly think that has a lot to do with it, he wants someone that is more like her, and I am the total opposite.
2007-05-25 14:13:46 · update #1
you sound like you might just be mor very attractive then you really realize for you are actually very attractive from what i can figure dear may be you should send me a pic so i can really see for sure and hen you will know the real truth for sure can i request one from you so i can actually give you my very honest opinnion haroldgardner194620071@yahoo.com ok and ty
2007-05-25 04:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same promblem,I would say everyime we go out though thats a little extreme.My husband loves me gut,he really never says how good I look or notices if I change my hair,clothes,or if I get my nails done.Other people that don't see you on a day to day routine will notice a change in you while your husband may not.
2007-05-25 04:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by what did you say 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men who are not good at expressing things. You are beautiful enough to have heads turn when you walk past. Your man does not compliment you does not mean he does not love or doesn't appreciate you. Have you talk to him? Tell him. You need to hear him say "I love you" or "you're beautiful and turn me on". Try something sexy in your bedroom. Make him turn on and feel want to touch or hold you.
2007-05-25 05:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him face to face about your concerns? Sounds like something is bothering him.You could ask him to tell you the truth about his feelings. Things get complicated when there are children involved. Sometimes men don't know What to say or how to act. Talk to him and get to the bottom of it and you will both be better off.
2016-03-12 23:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are really too beautiful and charming while your husband is too cool, or the way you dress is sexy which he doesn't like but can't tell you.
Why don't you just see how he really feels about you?
2007-05-25 04:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by hy003002 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he doesn't appreciate what he has or has gotten used to the routine of your relationship and thinks that he no longer needs to pay you those compliments. If he's a good person he will respond well to you explaining to him how it makes you feel to not be appreciated as you deserve.
2007-05-25 04:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by adam c 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your relationship is lacking some over due communication. Sit down and talk (nagging doesn't count as talking) with him and tell him how you feel.
2007-05-25 04:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want what we can't have and we all take for granted what we have obtained. He married you for reason; sorry he doesn't live up to your "what have you done for me today" expectations. If that's not the case, dump his azz and find out the grass isn't always greener...
2007-05-25 04:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mr 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES! He probably doesn't want to add to your already over inflated ego....
2007-05-25 04:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope....all guys look at other women, your husband is just used to you, and needs to appreciate you more....
2007-05-25 04:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋