2007-05-25 03:30:42 · 12 answers · asked by EndorphinRush 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
to warehouseoutsourcing: I think you are overanalyzing my intentions and everyone is free to keep off material that is depressing in any way. One thing that is depressing for you can be motivating for someone else; so please do not try and attack me for wanting to know people's opinions on subjects that interest to me but is painful for you. You obviously chose to answer because you thought getting your opinions out in the open can initiate change; I have lived through so much rejection too and the last thing I wish for is for someone to feel bad because of thinking that the question poses as a anti-motive? I quiet imagine the opposite and hope you find a way to realize that humanity is not necessarily selfless and voluntary for humanity's sake... Good luck to you and everyone else...
2007-05-25 04:15:10 · update #1
Ourselves... It's like losing the battle without any quarrel... Or in other word, your mind is blocking you... When you want to do something, your mind starting to say "no, it's to hard" or "no, I can't do it".
So first you have to win the battle with yourself
2007-05-25 03:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Angel J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cooperation;I keep making the apt's,interviewing,calling,but I am always told I am not qualified,they already use my service with someone else,or anything else people can come up with to keep me out...I always fail,I drove trucks for ten years with my wife and couldn't go to college because she would always leave me when I tried,as well as when I tried to purchase land for retail biz or sandwich shop,my parents put me in a children's home (religious) that home schooled so I have a GED with an 8th grade education and I was literally starving before getting into trucking,working general labor for roofing companies,drove trucks for ten years then became trucking rep,successful for 2 years and tried getting into Manufacturers Rep ,Food Sales Rep,or any type of legitimate sales and can't,my wife is pregnant and my only customer that gave me enough steady business to pay my bills put everything on rail...so I would say that the one thing holding me back from reaching my full potential is cooperation of others....unless this is my full potential and I was a one hit wonder...my dad thinks he finally raised the money to redrill an old oil pool he screwed up on in the 80's,so maybe I can get into the oil business with my estranged father....hitting a life changing windfall amount of money or finding cooperation of other succesful professionals is what is holding me back from taking the first step towards reaching my ful potential as I have been pushed so far backwards from the first step that it would take me ten years to get to where I could see the light from the first step...this question is depressing the hell out of me...is that how you pass your time torturing losers all day?You better hope karma doesn't bite you in the a*~ !!!
2007-05-25 10:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask what "the first steps" would be?
Only thing holding anyone back in this world is themselves. Believe me they don't think so, but as a leader of people I see it everyday. People with potential that would rather spend their time doing things that are not productive or not helpful to their future. I always ask them if they are at work why do they behave as if they are at home? Work is work and personal life is personal life....many people are incapable of separating the two.
2007-05-25 10:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by larryrickman2000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The fear of failure is the largest of stumbling blocks. We convince ourselves in our mind that the way of not failing is to not try in the first place.
2007-05-25 11:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may sound like another cliche.. but that something that holding me to take my 1st step to approach the girl I think I fall in love with, is my family background that does not seem to be accepting interracial love.
2007-05-25 10:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by lEftySpider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of motivation, laziness & procrastination. In essence what holds me back is myself.
2007-05-25 10:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what holds me back is having the dream that i could reach my potential... im scared that when i get there i won't have anything left to work on.
2007-05-25 10:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by booooooooooooooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proper medical diagnosis and subsequent treatment.
2007-05-25 10:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Deborah C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believing i could do it in the first place, and having trust in the absolute.
2007-05-25 10:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by chiara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F - alse
E - vidence
A -ppearing
R -eal
2007-05-25 10:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by ronk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋