This has happened to me before, and I want your opinion on this topic. What would you do, if this happened to you anywhere?
2007-05-25 02:32:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I am a domestic violence survivor. A better question would be... what if the person you loved treated you this way? How heartbreaking. In reality, domestic abuse should not be tolerated. Not enough people are educated about this and it drives me nuts.. The answer is to get away from the person and -if you can get them help. Notify someone or authorities. Abusiveness only escolates. Save someone, not just yourself. Get educated, arm yourself with knowledge... they want you to hit them back... they don't know how to act when you don't. You got them right there. Please visit these two websites:
http://www.drirene.com/verbal1.htm is a dom abuse site
and
http://samvak.tripod.com/npdglance.html is a narcissism website
Volunteering to help with domestic violence and abuse overall will make you an authority on such matters and you will be in charge the next time something like this happens. If God has put this question on your heart, then it may well be your lifes quest to become a part of the solution.
Good Luck and take no crap from no one... get away from an abuser... tell someone. Ahhhh, tell someone that will help I should say. It doesn't do anygood to crawl from person to person and just get opinions. Go to someone that will solve the problem.
2007-05-25 02:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This IS just my opinion. I would FIRST explain to my Dad the problem. Then tell him, if the school calls, I told you first. Then I'd find a trusting friend, and roll around and practice some moves ahead of time. Then, when prepared, when the "problem" arises again, I would do what The Rock, or Stone Cold would do. Win, lose, or draw, you've got your esteem, and self respect. When you're punched, kicked, and hit, that person has a false sense of security they can get away with it. Good luck.
2007-05-25 09:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Food for thought...
It takes two people to get to this situation. Before you look at the behavior of this person, look at your own. Analyze it completely find out what it is that you are doing to upset this individual and then stop it. Once you stop participating in the problem the problem will cease to exist.
What I would do is ensure it never happened as I'm too aware of others emotions and don't let things get to this point.
Takes a much bigger person to walk away from conflict than it does to participate in the conflict...and believe me you are participating if you get hit. If at the first sign of a problem you walked away...they would not have an opportunity to hit, kick, or otherwise do harm to you.
2007-05-25 10:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by larryrickman2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just left a job where this was happening to me every time I went in by a client of mine. I took this abuse of over a year. I knew I couldn't hit her back, but boy did my temper flare. I would walk away, but she would follow me or spit on me as I left. It's really hard and my nerves where shot. Mind you I went and got sedatives for myself because the powers that be would not medicate this person. I'm a nice person, but I reminded her of someone else that was not nice. I think you have to figure out why it's happening. And get out of that situation.
2007-05-25 09:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mary D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stand up for yourself. If you don't then this person will keep doing it. Either avoid situations where you would normally be in this person's presence or hit him over the head with a bat (that is classic!). You have to make a stand though. Good luck to ya!
2007-05-25 12:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i experience this before... that guy suddenly come out of no where and kick my ****!
The best thing to do is wait until the 3rd strike than ATTACK back! That's what i did, i was holding my Ping Pong bat at that time when he suddenly strike me. I was really shocked but didn't did any action until the 3rd strike where i locked his hand and smack his head with my bat. I believe i was out of line when i realize what i was doing. I apoligize with him and back too. After that, everything went out okay. I have my own life, he has he.
2007-05-25 09:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by $up3rM@n 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I try not to be violent. I'm really a nice person but you can't take but so much. If it kept happening I would probably beat them up.
2007-05-25 10:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Jax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this happens in nature. Maybe in an artificial environment designed by people who want to feel important and spiritually authoritarian.
2007-05-25 09:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by isis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you did not provoke that person.
If for no reson,just get person to the nearest mental hospital,b4 getting others hurt.
2007-05-25 11:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by george.m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For no reason? Well, all I can really say is one of us will be in the hospital and one of us will be in jail. It doesn't matter if you beat my *** and i'm in the hospital, because they will be sitting in jail thinking about me. Or if I beat their *** and I go to jail, they will be in the hospital thinking of me. Don't really matter to me. They will remember me for the rest of their lives.
2007-05-25 09:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋