My dad is 39 years old and he says next time i screw up he says he is gonna kick my azz. im 15 years old i think he is a little crazy. can he do that? he says if i call the cops hes gonna tear me apart when he gets out. he is a psyco. he used 2 deal drugs and hits me and my mom before she divorced him. the judge gave him custody over me. please tell me what i can do about him.
2007-05-25 02:31:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
what im doing 2 make him mad is failing school and selling phones and stuff @ school. But I don't think thats a reason 2 fight. thats insane. If it comes down 2 that what should i do?
2007-05-25 02:49:55 · update #1
oh yeah, hes says my mom wouldnt take me back even if he let me go cuz he says im a pain in everyone's azz. he says HE controls who i live with. can he do this?
2007-05-25 02:59:29 · update #2
You probably have no chance against fighting him, so call CPS or see a judge and try to get back into your mothers custody. Your father is a potential danger to you and you need to get out now.
You are in an abusive relationship, maybe your not being hit, but verbal abuse is serious. Talk to a counselor or teacher, etc.
PLEASE do not stick it out until your 18, you can be really damged or killed by then.
2007-05-25 02:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could call CPS and speak to them or speak to a teacher or Principal let them know you FEAR him. At this age you are old enough to decide where you want to live. A judge should listen to you. If you are in immediate danger at anytime don't hesitate to call 911. If there is not an immediate danger you can also call the local police department non emergency number, tell them he has threatened you if you report him. It is not legal for him to beat you. The way he is speaking to you could be considered emotionally abusive as well. I wish you the best in finding a better home environment.
You can also call Childhelp®
Phone: 800.4.A.CHILD (800.422.4453)
2007-05-25 02:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most states you are old enough to decide which parent to live with.You should check with a family service agency for the legality.You could get a copy of the divorce papers, they should spell it out too. It sounds like your father dosen't care about these laws and will retaliate physically.Cover your butt from all angles and get help to get away from him soon.If you are really afraid of physical harm a school guidance counseler can steer you to the help you need Don't wait.
2007-05-25 02:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by on my own again 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough to decide who you want to live with. What are you doing is my question to make him mad. And there must have been a reason that the judge gave him cust. of you. It is really hard for a father to get cust.. It may just be a figure of speak .
2007-05-25 02:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur old enuf 2 say who u want 2 live with. ifu have 2 a judge will listen 2 u. no child has 2 live with a person that abuses them
2007-05-25 04:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by bettyboop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to an adult you trust. If you have a decent guidance counselor at school, talk to him/her. Parents have a right to discipline their kids, but it sounds like your Dad is over the top, and way out of control. You need to be protected, so please talk to someone right away.
2007-05-25 02:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Marie C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get ur bags grab a phone sneak out and call the cops next call ur grandma or mom or granpa u can see if u can live with them instead
2007-05-25 04:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by ajz adivice corner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that house before you get hurt. Sounds like your dad really isn't much of a father to you. Get out of that environment before you get hurt.
2007-05-27 03:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Bill S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell someone you trust. dont let him ruin your life, like he did to his own. it may be hard, but in the long run, its better for both of you if he gets help. dont fight back, dont talk back, just get out of this situation. do you have someone you can tell, or talk to? this is urgent. what about your mum, do u still see her? it is NOT okay for him to hurt you, or even threaten to hurt you.
you deserve better.
good luck, please let us know how you go! xx
2007-05-25 02:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad flogs me if i do anything wrong itz just the way my culture goes i guess......
(im torris strait islander)
2007-05-28 22:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sione 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋