2007-05-25 02:31:22 · 45 answers · asked by kiriti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Smith and Wesson .357 should do the trick!
2007-05-25 02:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Drew C 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
This is a two-way street. They usually nag when you are truly involved in something else. Timing is what makes a nag a nag. Maybe you've been trying to get a part fixed on the car and then they ask you to do something else. Then it hits the fan.
When she is involved in something else, watching her favorite show or during some other chore, ask her for sex. Then you will be the nag. And remind her that she promised, whine a little and then you can start the fight.
Other than that, get a divorce, do her bidding when and where she wants it done, or work out the happy in-between.
( The best part is when you have just gathered the tools to do whatever job she has been asking you to do, and she nags about it.)
2007-05-25 03:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ret. Sgt. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it. tell her that the nagging is driving you up the wall and ask her to sit down with you and work out a plan....or a system. If you are NOT doing things she has asked you to do, probably the only time you do them is after she's driven you up the wall with her nagging. So ask her to make a list and tell her that you will accomplish check off one thing a week to help her out. Tell her the deal is that she can ONLY nag if you fail to do the one thing a week. That is just a suggestions, BE PRACTICAL and ask her to help you come up with a solution to stop the nagging.
2007-05-25 02:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's because you don't take out the trash, or whatever, the first time she asks/ Then the nagging is your fault. If you do something the first time then she doesn't have to ask 2 or 3 times, or nag. I am just honest with my husband, if you don't want me to keep asking, just do it. I don't make him repeatedly ask me to do something, like call a repair man for the broken washer, I like to get it done as soon as possible (usually before I forget). It's a mutual respect thing.
2007-05-25 02:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what she asks until there's nothing to nag about. If that's not an acceptable solution, and you can't be bothered to do what you're supposed to be doing, take a fit and start screaming uncontrollably. That would be just as unreasonable as the nagging, and you'd prove your point.
2007-05-25 02:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ted J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't unless she is nagging for a reason, like be a better husband, or sex is boring, then there is something you can do. you are married now, she will nag, and nag even more as the years go by, so do as she would like for you to do and maybe she wont nag as much. BD
2007-05-25 02:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's the build-up to nagging...
Casual request.
Polite reminder.
Polite, slightly firmer reminder.
Firm request.
NAG.
Whatever she's asking you to do...best do it after the Casual Request or Polite Reminder stage.
After that you're risking a nag.
2007-05-25 02:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Spazzcat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason why she nags you. Wives don't nag for no reason at all. And sometimes men confuse nags for reasoning or complaints. Have a heart. Next time you think she's nagging, shut her up with a kiss...and a hug. Now, isn't that sweet?
2007-05-25 02:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get her a copy of the "Surrendered Wife" by Laura Doyle.
I didn't realise how much my behavior towards my husband (even subtle behaviors where I thought I was just being helpful) were affecting our relationship until I read this book and started appreciating how men and women communicate on completely different levels.
If she's open to some of the ideas in the book, things should improve greatly - believe me it works!
http://www.surrenderedwife.com/
2007-05-25 08:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Witchywoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the check book, and tell her to go away....
hahahaha
No, just kidding. She is nagging for a reason. She might just want your attention, you BOOB!
Spend some time with her. Take her to a movie. Make her dinner. Kiss her butt like you used to do. Make her feel important again.
Or maybe she just wants you to get up off your lard butt and help around the house....figure it out, dude.
This is a woman we are talking about. Not rocket science!
2007-05-25 02:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to shut the hell up or your gettin a divorce or actually do the things she nags about before she nags.
2007-05-25 02:36:18 · answer #11 · answered by wallet_chain83 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋