Yesterday three little kids in the neighborhood...( ages 3-6 ) were in my back yard playing. I don't mind them playing in my yard but then one of them grabbed one of the sprinkler head of the irrigation system that was watering the yard and was jerking on it? I told him not to break it that we needed it to water the grass. He ran. This is an ongoing problem. How would you handle it?
2007-05-25 01:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by steff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I hate to have to talk to the parents. They all seem to think it is OK to let the kids play without supervision and would be offended.
2007-05-25 01:35:08 · update #1
Borrow some dogs to crap in the yard.
When the children go home with dog poop on their feet, the parents will forbid them to visit your yard ever again.
2007-05-25 01:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to the parents anyway what if they break something more costly in your yard and then you dont have the money to replace it ? You should talk to the parents about keeping a better eye on their children and who cares if they get offended . You are trying to keep their kids safe . I mean after all there are predators out there and no kids should be running around unsupervised . please remind the parents of that . good luck .
2007-05-25 01:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so you have neighbors with bad kids. I'm a Teacher, and I'll give you a good solution: Write your Neighbors A Letter--type it up, and mail it to them (with postage). That way, they will know you are serious, but you wont have to confront them.
In the letter, it is important to let them know that their kids could possibily cause them to have to PAY for damage to your property--that way they'll stop. Before you do so--get a digital camera and take PHOTOS of the kids in your yard, and take a photo of the child pulling on it--that it critical!!! Then Write:
"Dear X, I (or my husband & I) have noticed that in the past few weeks, your children have decided to play in my yard. First, I'd want to say that I asbolutely do not mind if your children play in my yard at all. They are sweet litle children. However, a few days ago, I saw your oldest child pulling and jerking on our undergroud sprinker system. I told him to stop, howvever, the next day, he continued to do this. I have enclosed a copy of the photo of your child pulling on the sprinkler system. (enclosed photo). Please note that I contacted the plumbers, and they told me that if any damage is done to the system will cost $800 to $1200 dollars. Please understand that I am trying my best to stop the children from creating any damage that will cause my system to break, so that you will not have to replace the system. I have asked them repeatedly to stop, but he simply does not listen or obey me. Therefore, I am asking you to please, please tell your children to not play in my yard anymore--only because since they are so very young, they are able to contunie to make the same mistakes agian because they are children. Although I have enjoyed your children, the truth is that if they do damage to the sprinkler system, this will create big problems fo the both of us. Keep in mind that I still care about your chilren, and I hope we can continue to have a good, cordial relationship. Sincerely, X"
2007-05-25 02:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whether or not they may be offended you will still need to speak with their parents about this. especially if their not supervising their children like they should be. you don't have to be rude about it, just stay polite. also, let them know that the sprinkler system would cost money if it got broke and wouldn't want to have to charge them the bill if their kids were to break it. by letting them know this they just might let their kids know not to go near the sprinklers again. (good luck).
2007-05-25 01:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, these kids have idiots for parents. Wolves could do a better job.
Talk to the kids if you don't want to talk to the parents. Tell them you don't want them playing in your yard because you do not have time to watch them and you are afraid they will get hurt.
You are begging for a lawsuit. Kids can find countless ways to injure themselves and deadbeat parents are the first to sue.
You don't need this hassle.
My son is eight and I don't let him go anywhere unsupervised.
Like I said, wolves could do a better job.
2007-05-25 01:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How offended do you think the parents will be when they sue you for everything you have? I know where I live, if those kids get hurt in your yard, you are responsible. Offend away sweetie. You can thank yourself later for keeping your property.
2007-05-25 01:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Just woke up 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not being a very nice person, I'd probably call the cops and tell them that someone's unsupervised children were wandering the neighborhood. That should fix it. (Seriously, it really could be dangerous for them, you know).
2007-05-25 01:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha..i thought you pronounced it brings life to the hood Im like what? lol real nevertheless, whether that's stressful if some little youngster keeps bouncing a ball... to in basic terms shop making noise -_- yet young toddlers enjoying exterior, that's the life..for a baby sorry lol...I purely examine it incorrect :)
2016-11-05 08:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by alyson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few different suggestions:
Build a fence around your property.
Next time you see unsupervised children (SMALL children!) on your property, call the cops and tell them you're worried about their safety, as they seem to have been abandoned.
2007-05-25 01:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely go to the parents and let them know that you don't want their kids in your yard as they are destructive.
That they need to set boundries and know where their kids are at...and that does not include your yard.
be cool...
2007-05-25 01:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋