During sex my girl wont let me have full penetration very often because she says it hurts too much. Is there anything I can do to help her accept the rest of my penis without causing her pain??
2007-05-24 22:45:35 · 9 answers · asked by irishdragon 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
she blames it on my penis size, but after 6 yrs together shouldnt she be getting more comfortable with it??
2007-05-24 22:59:24 · update #1
she has been to a dr and she is in fine health. thats y I came here for some advice/ideas on this subject
2007-05-24 23:15:42 · update #2
You need to try doing it a little slower, and softer. But I understand how she feels that is painful as heck. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh You can also try some different positions.. Get creative!!!!
2007-05-25 07:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if this will help you out any, but here goes anyway.
When a woman is un-aroused, her vagina will have a length of around 10 centimeters(will have to double check that).
Anyway, 10 centimeters is not much at all.
After the woman is aroused, her vagina will lengthen a fair bit more than the 10 cms it is,to be able to accomodate most penis sizes, even the fairly large ones.
Perhaps, you can try and spend some time helping her to become very aroused before you attempt penetration(preferably just before she orgasms), and make your movements gentle to begin with to avoid bumping her cervix, which does hurt when knocked against.
2007-05-25 00:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shivers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably the way you're positioned. I used to tell my boyfriend that because in certain positions it really did hurt. If I can't get comfortable I'll lay on a pillow and that usually helps. She just needs to find a more comfortable position. It's usually never becuase it's too big though. It might feel like it at the time but she just needs to try different positions. I worked at a porn shop for the longest time and I've gotten questions like this a lot.
2007-05-25 00:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by kornflake06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly a stable ingredient of this has have been given to be on your head. You look very under pressure and paranoid approximately it, and that i do no longer blame you. yet stress and paranoia make for undesirable intercourse. you will have an extremely thick hymen that's no longer thoroughly broken, or you will have a advance or some thing. i think of you may desire to probable pass to the scientific expert. additionally, before you have intercourse, take a little time with him to get your self waiting. in case you're no longer "waiting", it could no longer sense stable. try diverse angles and positions too. Your vagina is angled in the direction of your lower back, and an erect penis is angled in the direction of his abdomen. in specific situations those 2 angles do no longer pass mutually, and different circumstances they artwork completely. attempt to make your self loosen up, area of your soreness is coming from stress on your recommendations, which will become stress on your physique. stable success. don't be afraid or ashamed.
2016-11-05 08:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 5 years together and u hav only just realised right now? u should have adressed this issue at the beginning of the relationship.Take her to a doctor,there may be something rong with her vagina.
2007-05-24 23:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by teenage_temptress89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lubrication. It works wonders. Or try different positions. Some are more comfy than others. Or have her fully aroused before intercourse. So bloods flowing and everything else. Good luck!
2007-05-24 23:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have something physically wrong to cause this pain. I would recommend that she have this evaluated by her dr to see what they think could be causing the pain.
2007-05-24 22:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by sokokl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of foreplay and lots of lubrication.
2007-05-28 22:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by teatotler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to go see a doctor something is wrong with her
2007-05-24 23:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋