i see so many of my frends suffering at the hands of their loved ones.yeah maybe most of them arent actually in love must be infatuation but even that seems to be so tough to deal with.and the way ppl behave in such problems is queer too.each has his own point of view to make clear!
2007-05-24 20:10:55 · 20 answers · asked by emerald! 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Love is a disease which can be cured by love only.
Love is a river of fire and you have to cross it by drowning in it.
2007-05-26 14:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in love, there are sure some up and downs, preferably more ups than downs. We are part of mother nature, we learn, we argue, we love, we hate...
If we found the right partner to love and to cherish, i would think that we have found the bed of roses. Everyone will suffer a little bit of pain during breakups but it is not the end of the world. Those who doesn't appreciate you are not worth being together, even as friends! There many people out there that would like to be your friend and have a long term relationship and marriage. As long as we don't give up, definitely we will find our other halves.
2007-05-25 03:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by pearly07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is:
1: roses are beautiful things, yet handled harshly or foolishly, will cut, hurt, make you bleed.
2: a long stem of pain (it grows and the thorns are there well before the bud ever opens -- our lives, all our painful experiences and dissapointments before we achieve "growth, love," which is beautiful, short, won't last. The flower can be dried, cured, kept for beauty but never the same as at first, much like love between 2 people. Youthful love is ripe, fresh as flower petals, but as love matures, dries... It's not so beautiful. It's still a rose if it's dry, it's still love, but never the same.
3: We may find that sleeping in a bed of roses may smell sweet and be ideal, but we move carefully, as we do in relationships, careful not to snag on each other's thorns.
So, at least in this little excersize, love is a bed of roses, exactly. Just as fragrant, beautiful, painful. We are drawn to others as we are to smell a flower, but careful where you grasp, who you grasp. Some have more thorns than others.
2007-05-25 03:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Megg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This phrase generally we say for life not for love. In love you have to be honest and sincere with your beloved only but in life which is a chain of struggle, it needs more attention and constant efforts to live in a dynamic way. Living with respect within in your family/ friends and community, how you fulfill your family requirement in a respectable way, needs of your spouse and children which is prime among all, are the main symptoms the life teaches you. Whereas the love only is attached with your spouse and no tension. Love itself always seems an understanding with your beloved which goes gradually reduce with raising time span. Beloved always wants that she should always be treated in the same way when she was first treated before marriage or first night of the marriage which is impossible for a male to give the same extent because both enters into a practical life and it will go down or will minimal as soon as you are going to mature. So think about life how to live, love will be more ornamented when you have a sound living standard and wealth.
2007-05-25 03:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Iqbal H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree that broken heart can be a painful affair. Often end in depression and even suicide at times when the anguish cannot be reconciled. Commonality of premarital sex, intolerant, infidelity, and lacking in understanding for each other hasten the deterioration of the affair. If only couples have longing for each other, and less carefree on the features being the criteria for affection alone. ---On this very basis, love would have better foundation.
Given the test of time, the power of love can be extraordinary. Imagine a happy family is an enclave of solace and strength for each other to be successful.
2007-05-25 05:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by cheng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think true love is very rare. It seems today that all we here about from the so-called experts are methods of compromise,expressing frustration and anger sanely and carefully ,dealing with the "effort" and "work" of love. My love and I have always held close to our heart a fairy tale faith that true love is possible. Absolute faith and trust are possible with no "work" involved. It rarely happens and we usually settle for far less. But my love and I are living our fairy tale come true. True love is about caring and sharing without thinking. Life goes on automatic as the best script imaginable begins to unfold. Well worth waiting for and even if you never find the dream love of your heart,keep it there within you because it feels so good,especially in this world
2007-05-25 05:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Red Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When every thing exists in the universe in dualty, like day with night, happiness with sorrow, man with woman, brightness with darkness there is nothing un usual for love to be sans thorns..Thats the way God has created everything with relative value for HIS creations to never ever forget that good can follow with bad too if handled carelessly..
2007-05-27 19:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But to avoid depression etc. , don`t become very confident about the other person`s response. BE PREPARED FOR THE WORSE, so that if the other leaves you or may be due to some reason, both of u may not be able marry or something, you would not feel bad & woulod not face any problem.
2007-05-25 03:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by shailendra s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First understand that infatuation is an emotion, while Love is a decision.
Love is not what you feel, but what you do.
All of my friends and family have let me down from time to time and some have injured me severely, but my reaction is to love. Not because I get something out of it but because they get something out of it.
when people do foolish things and injure their friends and loved ones, it is usually because they are in need of balance and aid. Because they are as family to me, I give them whatever appropriate aid I can. I choose to Love them.
Is love a bed of roses? Oh yes and Daisy's and crocus and thistle and cactus. Love is the whole garden.
2007-05-25 03:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Dr weasel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation is initial phase of love. Love definitely is bed of roses till it lasts, if it is not beds of roses then there is no love anymore. If two can form emotional bonding during early period of togetherness then they can have a long partnership.
2007-05-25 05:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by shailew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is actually a bed of roses. No doubt in it.
You make mistakes while choosing the person.
2007-05-25 03:44:34 · answer #11 · answered by Naveen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋