Like people who went out of their relationship and still staying under the same roof with wives forgiving them because they have not seen the action with their own eyes.
2007-05-24 19:47:44 · 15 answers · asked by titty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel that if they're not going to honor their marriage and they want to phuck around they should get unmarried.
2007-05-24 19:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I don't know. I would like to say that I think they are "sluts" but then what does that say about me. I think people who commit adultery are confused. Maybe they think they can find something out there that they can't in the marriage but in the end after you give in again and again trying to "find" something you realize there is nothing out there. I don't think some wives forgive them because they haven't seen it with their own eyes. I think they forgive them because they might feel no one else would want them and don't know what to do. It's kind of confusing. I figure most people will say it's a sin and the Bible talks against it and perhaps this is true. However, I want to know if that is your mind set then why would you ask a question for which you already know the answer. That is if you already have a preconceived notions and you are simply looking to validate it. There will also probably be people who give this a thumbs down rating because I haven't said what they think I should. But if you really want a heartfelt answer, you have it here.
2007-05-24 19:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people who commit adultery have a problem with communication in a marriage and instead of turning to their partners they turn away from them thinking that the grass is greener on the other side, not realizing that the grass is greener where you water it. Marriage is about communication. You have to talk to your husband or wife about what is it you need. If you don't, people end up with problems like this.
2007-05-24 20:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by jnnfchar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't stone people to death now unless you are a Muslim. I mention that only to emphasize the gravity of the offense.
Personally, I think the unfaithful spouse should be given a chance to change his/her ways. If he/she continues with the affair then something must be done about it. It is really a tough decision because many factors will come into play - children, etc.
I hope this helps you.
2007-05-24 20:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! my ex didnt even get to the cheating point before i left him he had every intention and if i hadnt shown up with our 6 month old twins so i left his sorry @$$ people who cheat are missing some thing in them selfs that makes them incapeable of haveing a stable relationship and they are also unable to commit to one person or becreative enough to make a worth wile relationship work
2007-05-24 19:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by mommyofanangel06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are afraid of change, of finalizing closure and start another. They prob feel guilty. But I think it is selfish. Unless they are trying to change, they should cut the relationship loose so everyone can find a better life.
2007-05-24 19:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ladeeda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone makes mistakes in life..some bigger then others however i feel everyone is entitled to forgiveness...sometimes we have no answer to why we do what we do..even though we know it hurts the ones we love...some people can look their partner in the eyes and say exactly why they committed adultery...others may never know why...it all comes down to how much you love that person and how much your willing to forgive them...you can't live life thinking well is she/he doing it again...you just can't so its all a mental thing in the end of it all...but i feel everyone deserves a second chance....first time shame on him/her second time shame on me.....
2007-05-24 19:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by lani 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they are stupid and most of the time don't appreciate what they have at home. Usually they find out pretty soon that the grass isn't greener on the other side.
2007-05-24 20:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by tannerlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they shouldn't be married at all. The person who was cheating on will have low self esteem and trust issues, while the person doing the cheating is a moron for cheating and shouldn't be forgiven.
2007-05-24 19:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they are cheating themselves and their spouse out of a lifetime of happiness. They always get caught, and everybody, including the children, gets hurt. It is not worth it.
2007-05-24 19:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think those people who commits adultery doesn deserve happiness in life...doesnt deserve to be love by their wife because they had done something that could hurt their wife and could ruin their relatonship.
2007-05-24 20:27:27 · answer #11 · answered by geal_26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋