well my friend. well not really anymore
ok ok ok
so heres the story. we were like best best friends. like im talking sleep overs every weekend hang out at school and other stuff too. my other friend tells me about all this stuff shes been telling her like how she is starting to not like me and how i dress like a slut and stuff. and ive been noticing a change in her like she doesnt want to b my best friend anymore so im just really sad cuz i thought she really cared about me and stuff but yeah.
do you think i should go to my school counciler about it? he keeps thing confidential. wat do you think?
2007-05-24 17:49:18 · 7 answers · asked by jesso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, if none of these answers help, then go to a counselor. But your best friend isn't a very good friend. True friends are ones that
-accept you as you are
-care about you
-understand you
-doesn't lie to you, even if it would hurt your feelings
-don't always have to agree with you
I suggest you go find a new best friend that won't hurt you.
2007-05-24 18:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Fishy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I think you should do is if you have a close relationship with your parents I think that you should confide in them. If you do not feel comfortable talking to your mom or dad about it or another close family relative then you should talk to your councilor. This obviously is an issue that is really bothering you. I reccomend that you dont tell any of your other friends that this is bothering you or tell anyone that you talked to a councilor or your family about this. If you do then this will just start rumors and the problems with escalate. Another thing you could do is go directly to your friend and tell her how you feel and maybe their is something wrong and she thinks your mad at her? Maybe the person that told you she was made is starting problems? So the best thing you can do is try to talk to your X bestfriend and try to work it out. I hope that this advice helps you!
2007-05-25 00:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kellen L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that's life. Sad as it is, these things really happen perhaps to teach us important lessons about friendship. For me, a third party like your school councilor, can only make things complicated. You and only you can tell if you should end your friendship with her. Trust your gut feelings. If you think that your friendship is still worth saving, then talk to her and be honest with your feelings about her. If not then, tell her and move on. The transition could be quite difficult but believe me, it will also pass. You'll get over it sooner or later and you'll find new friends.
2007-05-25 01:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by flooke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should you need to talk to someone about this situation i can understand how you would be hurt by your friend acting this way i would recommend giving her space, and not bothering her dont try to force her to be your friend and be close to you like yall were just give her time away and she should come around, it sounds like this other girl whos telling you all this stuff is nothing but a gossiper because she is telling u stuff she shouldnt be repeating that to you knowing that its gonna upset u but she doesnt care shes selfish and thats why she is telling u what ur friends saying abut u because she is trying to get u mad at ur friend for saying those things about u and is putting a wedge or a gap in between u and ur best friend she wants to be her best friend it sounds like so shes trying to turn u and her against each other cause she knows yall are so close and shes jelous over that, havnt u ever heard the expression 2 is good company but 3 is a crowd well thats what it means in your situation. goodluck
2007-05-25 00:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah go see your counciler,but you might be ready to move on,sounds like she is,sounds like shes turning into a little B----h (sorry) but it does or some body is trying for what ever reason to come between the 2 of you.
2007-05-25 01:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is that important to you, by all means go. You need to clear your mind of this situation, and that would be the best place to start.
I am so sorry that you have to be judged by your so called friends. Try to be more discriminate when choosing friends next time.
2007-05-25 00:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't go to your school counselor, maybe you could get a guy friend....instead, girls suck sometimes!
2007-05-25 00:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by hpage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋