what worries and troubles do you carry with you day to day ?...... what things from your past/future effect the way you are now?......Do you have a chip on your shoulder for instance?..... why?
2007-05-24 17:12:43 · 36 answers · asked by Sharky Vl 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am not a worrier - definitely a "cross that bridge when I come to it" type of person. The only things worth worrying about are those where you can effect some change, otherwise worrying about something which is inevitable is a complete waste of time and energy.
As for troubles, my way of coping is to be accepting of the situation and not rail against it. Once you accept that the situation is as it is, you just carry on and do what you have to do without the added stress of anger or resentment.
I can block things out from the past to a certain extent but, of course, those experiences do affect the present in some way. In my case, I am always wary of the potential for getting hurt (emotionally) and I find it very difficult to trust people completely.
I don't think I have a chip on my shoulder - I hope not, as this is something I find deeply unattractive in other people.
I hope that answers your question - but what are you doing looking through my baggage anyway .....?
2007-05-24 22:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dolores & the prune 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugged and gang raped at 15, alcoholism from 15-18, pregnant and married at 19,only later to find out the man I married is an abusive meth/crack addict, now two kids a few months from 29 and going through a divorce after allmost 11 years, and in love with a man that is separated, but still married. My only comfort is that I know there is a Heaven because life is the Hell we must endure until we get there. I don't trust as much as I used to and I think I am not myself anymore. I have been on the Highway to Hell for too long and I'm finally turning around to look for the missing pieces of myself. It's getting too hot for me and I can't take the heat. Riding with Satan beside me and the demons of my past the car is just too crowded. I gotta let it all go. I put EVERYTHING on the line for someone I can say I truly love for the first time. Now, I'm just sweating it out.
2007-05-24 18:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WOULD FIND MY HEART!
well.....i worry sometimes that i will not fully fulfil every curiosity or wish that i have, everybody is affected by their past, it is how we all are different, deal with situations differently, behave the way we do. For instance, a person who grew up in a home where there was no or little communication will be highly likely to grow up not really knowing how to commnicate with others. Well every day i am learning to try to not have my past and future affect me, i try to live day by day, and seiz moments, because i have 1 life and i believe in peace in mind living one day at a time!
~freddy, peace
2007-05-24 17:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clothes
2007-05-24 17:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know mine, and even if you didn't I wouldn't answer here....but generally,if you looked through my baggage now, you'd find that the only things left are guilt from the things I've done wrong,and resentment towards the ex. everythng else,I kinda let go...I had too...it was eating me up.
2007-05-24 21:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by cc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would see a modern day civil war. Many people in the same family looking to destroy me or push me to insanity or worse yet, to suicide. Yea, my family, you'd see them and what they've done to me over the years. You would see how I hide myself from them in order to keep my sanity! To stay alive. I don't have a chip on my shoulder, I can't afford one. I'm that poor! They took everything! God Bless!
2007-05-24 17:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Czech Chick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a tiny hand-bag for any troubles that might come along but my past is in the past ( and not real today), the future hasn't happened , (so is also not real today)
...and chips don't feature in my life...
2007-05-25 01:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chip on shoulder kind of, but isnt that self esteem
troubles,i find that we tend to throw daggers at each other instead of magnificent plants that grow
conquer and divide needs to stay in the continental divide
worries,that i may be part doormat
2007-05-24 17:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Agent99 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You would find alot of baggage, and if I had all the answers you would have nothing to go through.
2007-05-24 17:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by ~4NOW~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You would find lots of clothes,shoes,and other things that a woman needs to keep herself beautiful...
No Worries,or Troubles for me.... I love my life,and everything about it... :)
2007-05-24 17:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by ....~K.C.~.... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋