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First, breathe deeply, cry freely and then stop and live! Ask her, when you see her again, why? Is there someone else? Is she disillusioned with you as a partner? She owes you that much....then, get a separation agreement, written by YOUR lawyer. Protect your assets is the only thing you should think about.
Personally, surround yourself with what makes you happy and around positive people. Make new friends and explore new things to do. Stay too busy to miss her much. You will be alright...just clinch your fists and 'choose' to be treated fairly.
YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE RESPONSIBLE FOR MAKING YOU HAPPY.

2007-05-24 17:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

sorry pal, but there is nothing you can do anymore. After you have searched for an explanation, which im sure you already have, you have to leave this sitaution in the hand of fate (god). Thats why it hurts so bad. people make mistakes and get confused and go through emotional breakdowns. she may indeed love love you or she may not. only time will tell. In the mean time dont give up on yourself, it will be the hardest thing you ever do but you need to make yourself happy again,

2007-05-25 00:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There is too much left un-said here. There is some reason behind the dissolve of a marriage after less than 2 years.
If you really want an informative answer, you will have to give a little back ground on this.

2007-05-25 00:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kathere 2 · 0 0

Im sorry you're havng to go through something like that, but I must say, you're much better off having to go through this now than to have had her stick around another 10 years.
The old saying goes, "it takes twice as long as the time spent together to heal " .
It'll take a bit of time, but you'll be fine. Everything happens for a reason.
By all means, remember, DO NOT take it personally....

2007-05-25 00:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by sheliteful 3 · 0 0

love is not that giggly feeling, its not orgasmic sex, it is based on MUTUAL attraction,as well as care, and needs to be worked at, nurtured and fed. this is why marriages fail, 1 partner quits when it gets boring or is too much work, or someone else gives them the giggles. Maturity and time.
You dont say, is there someone else?
At any rate, it is sad to see a marrage fail, but we all must move forward, try and fix things, or stand back with no pressure and wait.

2007-05-25 01:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ken W 2 · 0 0

I'm really sorry to hear that. I guess I would need to know more about this situation to answer the question. If she really wants to leave, ask HER to move out. What were her reasons? Did she give you any? My other other suggestion would be to ask her to try marriage counseling with you to try and see if there is any way to salvage the relationship

2007-05-25 00:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by amyaz_98 5 · 2 0

Get a divorce and move on is the most mature thing to do.
Things will not get better if you try and force her to stay because she feels sorry for you or any other reason.

2007-05-25 00:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 0 0

Get a good lawyer and proceed to divorce her. she is already left you.

Only one reason I can think of why she left you. Did you ever satisfied her in bed? may be you want only your satisfaction and you forgot that women need as well. its too late anyway.
learn from mistake.

2007-05-25 00:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by farida 1 · 0 0

Maybe she did not mean it. Maybe she was just mad. You give no details so I don't know. If that is all that happened then try to go to counsiling. Be prepared though if she springs a surpirse divorce on you and takes you for everytrhing,.

2007-05-25 00:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Join your fellow men. All slightly different story but same outcome. What you should do is look at your priorities. If you have no kids, you are fortunate. If you have kids, they are your priority. If you have a few dollars, do what you can to protect them.

2007-05-25 00:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0 0

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