When I was 12, meet a boy, first kiss. we pareted but always wrote letters till 15. met again at 17 (kissed more) (parted) and now at 26 we found eachother again. Thing is. We told eachother we were gonna marry eachother- now- he has a fiancee and a child. but, he tells me all his feelings came back for me. He said he loves me as much as a man could love a woman. tells me he loves me every time we talk and says he wishes he could be with me. Hes not 100% happy with his relationship but thinks he could learn to appreciate and love her more. Should he leave her? I Think its unfair reguardless of who he is gonna pick cause the fiancee deserves someone to love her as much as he says he loves me. He wants to follow his heart and do the right thing. what would you do? Follow your heart? Or do you stay cause "its the right thing to do"?
Ok.. He does love her.. but THINKS he can love her more.. but Says. He will ALWAYS love me! Now, I am happy for him. I answer advice for him when he has a problem with her. I tell him that as of right now, yes, im here, i love him and ill be here waiting for a decision and no matter what he chooses, Im happy for him and always want him to be happy NUMBER ONE! ALSo-
let me throw this in.. they both have cheated on eachother-- he says he knows she dont trust him (and him loving me well **** she has every reason to not trust him) and there sex life is nothing anymore.. is it cause she is cheating again maybe?
2007-05-24 15:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
She may be, but (sorry) I don't think your friend is a saint either. However, you have to follow your heart but use your head too. I think you already know what to do.
2007-05-24 15:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by webdoll62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you are doing potential harm to his future relationship. If it were me, I would gracefully bow out of the relationship. Some day, if he's single and not engaged I'd consider picking the friendship back up where it left off but I'd still proceed with caution. Typically "once a cheater always a cheater". Don't be the cause of the demise of his relationship. Sounds as if he'll do that on his own but you don't want that on your conscience.
2007-05-24 22:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by 'tisJustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do what is right.
and if they are cheating on each other, the right thing is to either go into couples therapy and work at getting each others trust back or decide upon how they will break up and the upbringing of their child.
In your shoes, I'd be running a mile. At 26 you will find someone in next to no time.
2007-05-24 22:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always follow your heart regardless of the outcome...everybody in life gets hurt sometimes but....that too shall pass
2007-05-24 22:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by TJ F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never forget your first love. But there is a child involved.
Do what is right, and it will be right for everyone. Not easy,
but you will have a clear conscience.
2007-05-24 22:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is right
2007-05-24 22:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try compromising..........do a little of what is right and something that follows ur heart.....its worked for me!
2007-05-24 22:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♥me, myself and i♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should do whats right
2007-05-24 22:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
Don't forget that.
2007-05-24 22:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋